Gud, is this the first one? All the best to you both. If/where it is difficult, I hope it's the fruitful sort of difficult.
Excuse me? Who gave you permission to exist?
Cordelia ,'Beneath You'
Spike's Bitches 25 to Life
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Topic!Cindy - Aug 18, 2005 7:38:06 am PDT #7138 of 10001
What is even happening?
Nora Deirdre - Aug 18, 2005 7:41:54 am PDT #7139 of 10001
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)
is this the church counseling, Gud?
Gudanov - Aug 18, 2005 7:41:55 am PDT #7140 of 10001
Coding and Sleeping
It's not the first one.
Sparky1 - Aug 18, 2005 7:42:30 am PDT #7141 of 10001
Librarian Warlord
Gud, I hope this counselor has something insightful to say to you and your wife (perhaps separate things). I admire the way you do everything you can to make this work.
PC, I'm sorry you've lost a friend.
We have now been fully taken over by students, and I am back wearing "real" work clothes. I think Marc Jacobs is my new best boyfriend when it comes to shoes.
Sean K - Aug 18, 2005 7:42:58 am PDT #7142 of 10001
You can't leave me to my own devices; my devices are Nap and Eat. -Zenkitty
Gud, I hope that works out for you.
Polter-Cow - Aug 18, 2005 7:44:51 am PDT #7143 of 10001
What else besides ramen can you scoop? YOU CAN SCOOP THIS WORLD FROM DARKNESS!
Gud, I hope the counseling does some...good.
Fred Pete - Aug 18, 2005 7:44:54 am PDT #7144 of 10001
Ann, that's a ferret.
Best wishes, Gud.
Aims - Aug 18, 2005 7:47:49 am PDT #7145 of 10001
Shit's all sorts of different now.
Gymboree is, quite literaly, going to kill me.
eBay is the accomplice.
Just in case I dissapear amongst a pile of coordinating leggings and onesies.
lisah - Aug 18, 2005 7:49:39 am PDT #7146 of 10001
Punishingly Intricate
Best wishes for Gud and PC. Dag those are hard life things.
In complete mememe. I present. My new hair do.
Thank you all for your support.
Lyra Jane - Aug 18, 2005 7:50:36 am PDT #7147 of 10001
Up with the sun
Glad you guys are going to counseling, Gud, even if it won't be the most pleasant thing you've ever done. Good luck.
What Raq said. I hope it helps build peace between you and your wife, even if the process isn't pleasant.
Can I vent for a minute? I am really, deeply, ragingly (is that a word) angered by the seeming inability of my bank, my insurance company, and the car dealership to get their shit together and either a)agree that yes, all paperwork showing the loan on the totalled car will be paid off is in order or b)tell me what the fuck exactly they need to make it so. I keep getting calls from the dealership's loan officers saying it's not all cool, and when I ask what they need, they say to talk to the insurance company, and the insurance company says they've faxed everything over, twice, and are baffled to what the dealership wants and why they're bugging me about it, and the bank says they need something from the dealership but it has nothing to do with us as consumers. And to be quite possibly racist, it is not helping things that the loan officers speak English as a second language, because I feel like either they're missing something or I'm missing something when we talk. (And then I get to feelk like a horrible horrible person for thinking that.) It is also not helping that they always call me during lunch. I hate that.
I talked to the customer service head at the dealership. Hopefully he will be able to do something so we can settle this with one phone call. But it may have put me off the dealership for good.