I'd wait for poker night, and casually drop "Say Bob... I notice I'm not invited to your wedding. What's up with that?"
The good thing is we have the relationship where I can actually do this. He's like a big brother, so I can pretty much smack him upside the head and say "What is your issue, dude?". His mom'll probably help.
it also might be that the bride's family made up the guest list and couldn't decide your status.
I know he at least sent out the invites himself.
Are you old friends with his bride-to-be, as well, Lilty?
No, although she's very nice and I like her a lot. They've been dating almost a year. We went to the Sox victory parade together. I thought we bonded!
Bah. I have to go to work. Six more days.
Can you beat them with a stick?
Stick? STICK??? No, they will an anvil punted at their pointy heads. Or, even evil-er - I'll send ita and her swords after them.
If anything, it's easier for future geneaologists. (Isn't that an oxymoron)
Not any more than "Future History"
sj, I think you just need to keep whatever reasons you give for bowing out last week as simple as possible. You're not yet sure just what they're thinking -- they might not be mad at all about last week, they might not connect it to the comments from the week before.
Aimee, sending ita is probably a good idea, but make sure you go with her so you get the pleasure of watching the payroll office become the bloody pulp office.
Oof, sj. That sounds uncomfortable.
Yup. And, I still feel like hiding tonight.
sj, I think you just need to keep whatever reasons you give for bowing out last week as simple as possible. You're not yet sure just what they're thinking -- they might not be mad at all about last week, they might not connect it to the comments from the week before.
T. knows I was upset about the comments the other friend made the week before, but she thought I was overreacting. I don't know if she told our other friend or not. I mentioned money reasons and not feeling up to going out when I left the messages last week. Both were true. Staying in with friends watching a movie and eating snacks was just cheaper/easier for me. My depression has been a little worse the last couple of weeks, and I just couldn't deal with the situation.
I mentioned money reasons and not feeling up to going out when I left the messages last week. Both were true. Staying in with friends watching a movie and eating snacks was just cheaper/easier for me. My depression has been a little worse the last couple of weeks, and I just couldn't deal with the situation.
sj, these are your friends. I think that if you tell them exactly what you wrote above, they will understand and be supportive. They don't get that chance if you hide from them. Anything we can do to help make this easier?
Oh, no. What kind of sick, Cashmere? I hope you both get better, right away.
Cold with sore throat. We're drowning in a river of snot here. The boy's getting Triaminic and I'm dosing myself with Tylenol Sore Throat.
So first he was happy. Then he looked perplexed. Then he said, "Well, he may be a Republican but at least he isn't a Yankee."
BWAH! Emmett's cute AND smart!!
{{{Aimee}}}
Shoooooes. Whimper. I want the red-and-black Pavadita.
