It's my estimation that... every man ever got a statue made of him, was one kind of sumbitch or another.

Mal ,'Jaynestown'


Spike's Bitches 25 to Life  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Amy - Jul 27, 2005 1:24:41 pm PDT #3392 of 10001
Because books.

Well, the plan was that DH's salary would cover the bills and his personal expenses, while my freelancing would cover my personal expenses and, as it grew, expand to pay down debt and build savings.

Oh. But still, freelancing is always a risk, which you both knew, right? I guess I'm saying even if *you* feel bad about it, he probably doesn't begrudge a haircut.


JZ - Jul 27, 2005 1:26:04 pm PDT #3393 of 10001
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.

Despite the money fretting and the guilt about dependency and all, I'm still gonna vote for sucking it up and asking; it's shallow as all hell, but there is indeed something comforting and ego-stoking about the transformation from stupid hair to cool hair. And, as therapy or self-medications go, it's still very very cheap.

Also, Jen and Cindy, insent.


erikaj - Jul 27, 2005 1:34:33 pm PDT #3394 of 10001
Always Anti-fascist!

wrod. And you're into it this far, right? That haircut money won't take anything away, right? Or, could you trust a student? THey're cheap, if a bit of a time committment as you are somebody's, like, bangs final.


juliana - Jul 27, 2005 1:40:42 pm PDT #3395 of 10001
I’d be lying if I didn’t say that I miss them all tonight…

Susan, my sympathies. I know the pain of of the budget, yes I do.


Susan W. - Jul 27, 2005 1:41:19 pm PDT #3396 of 10001
Good Trouble and Righteous Fights

And I so didn't mean when I first posted to start something that would offend anyone or bring my simmering money anxiety up to boiling over levels.

Just so tired, so hurty, and so wishing I could see some kind of light beyond this endless tunnel.


-t - Jul 27, 2005 1:45:27 pm PDT #3397 of 10001
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

You'll be fine, Susan. You have a plan, and you are working on it. Sure, not you're original plan, and adjusting takes time, but you're on the road.

I am tellilng myself this a lot, and I don't have nearly as much of a plan, not am I doing as much to accomplish my goals.


P.M. Marc - Jul 27, 2005 1:46:16 pm PDT #3398 of 10001
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

Susan, you need a guilt-free you time. If you'll stress too much about money for a haircut to make you feel good, have Dylan take Annabel out for some Daddy time, grab your most comforting comfort read, and curl up with it. If you can take a bath, or spend your read with soothing lotion on your feet, so much the better.


juliana - Jul 27, 2005 1:47:05 pm PDT #3399 of 10001
I’d be lying if I didn’t say that I miss them all tonight…

ION....

Eeeeheeheehee.

Wee swabbie ducky: Aye, aye, Cap'n!

Wee bo's'n ducky: Steady as she goes.

Wee gunnery ducky: Arrrrrrrrr.

Wee pirate ducky: Avast!

Zach as Juliana acts out the above seafaring drama: amused.

The cats whilst eyeing the wee piratical duckies: threatened with shaving if they go near them.

Juliana as she unpacks the rest of the stuff the lovely EpicTangent sent her: gleefully beside herself.

Hee! I love it, sweetie! Thanks! The tiara kicks ass. Black metal and sparklies. Yummy.


Amy - Jul 27, 2005 1:47:30 pm PDT #3400 of 10001
Because books.

Just so tired, so hurty, and so wishing I could see some kind of light beyond this endless tunnel.

My life feels like that a lot these days. (Well, not the hurty, unless you count a rogue tooth.) And you just have to slog through it. It's hard with a toddler, because you're tied to her routine, and her needs, and when you're having one of those days where you, mentally, should be treating yourself to a browse in the bookstore or a coffee stop or lazing around with DVDs all day, you can't. Parenthood is hard. (Not that that's what you were saying, but it makes dealing with crappy days harder.)

If you don't get these interviews, you'll find other jobs to apply for. And the heat will end, eventually. And your aches -- well, you've got the PT for that. And drugs! Take the drugs. They'll help.

Inside the tunnel, you just have to keep on keeping on, you know?


Cass - Jul 27, 2005 1:49:57 pm PDT #3401 of 10001
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

It helps with the bone-deep blahs in the short term.
Plei is wise.
And, as therapy or self-medications go, it's still very very cheap.
As is JZ.

Just so tired, so hurty, and so wishing I could see some kind of light beyond this endless tunnel.
But, really? So are you. You are tired, in pain and frustrated. There are reasons you feel the way you do. Perfectly understandable and reasonable reasons.

That said, I hope you can find some small thing that will both make you perk up a bit and not worry about it financially.

you need a guilt-free you time. If you'll stress too much about money for a haircut to make you feel good, have Dylan take Annabel out for some Daddy time, grab your most comforting comfort read, and curl up with it. If you can take a bath, or spend your read with soothing lotion on your feet, so much the better.
Exactly what Plei said better while I was typing.