Spike's Bitches 25 to Life
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
Yeah, the vacuum against the floor was better than my head against a big block of concrete. Once I realized that there were things in jeopardy beyond my floor which was getting whomped, I stopped.
This is a good thing. Not the assault per se, but the figuring.
Yes, this helped a lot. It helped break the cycle where I was hysterically crying because of a dumb broken vacuum, freaking out more because a stupid vacuum was making me cry, lather, rinse and eventually stop repeating.
and multitudes of cat hair
I am totally blaming the cats. I mean I am still petting them, but I am silently feeling that it is their fault.
Okay, I am going to try and get some sleep.
Thank you all for getting me through earlier tonight. I realize that it reads so silly, but stuff tonight was really just the last straw. I was like a shooked up soda.
I am totally blaming the cats. I mean I am still petting them, but I am silently feeling that it is their fault.
This is always fair. I always say to blame the ones that can't talk back. Young children and dogs are also good for this.
Hair pictures are up at a friends flickr account: [link]
Some are sideways, but I'm not sure how to fix that, especially since it's his account. The after pictures are fair, but don't capture the best of the cut, as they are post-wind. One last caveat and addendum: I don't always look cross-eyed.
Popping in to say we are home and exhausted and now have to get hyper baby to sleep. Wheee.
More tomorrow.
Welcome home, Aimee!
Libkitty, the new hair is fabulous on you! You look much lighter of spirit, and more carefree.
(((PC))) You got some fantastic advice here today. I will just say briefly that DH had to make the same sort of decision, and his parents made it impossible for him to do it gracefully. It was their way or no way. He couldn't continue to be treated like their adolescent child, and said so. The bad news is, they disowned him. They didn't speak for seven years. It was completely their decision, and once they'd made it, he never attempted to make reconnection, because to them it would have been total capitulation. Seven summers later, they contacted him. There was a brief period of catch-up, no lingering recrimination, and henceforward they treated him as their adult son.
I hope things go more smoothly than that for you. But sometimes you have to be willing and strong enough to stand up for yourself. What they do is up to them. I wish you all wisdom, patience and courage with this situation.
vw, I'm so glad today was a good birthday for you. You really deserve it, you know.
Cass, I'm so sorry about the meltdown. But a vacuum ultimately is a small price to pay for an epiphany. I'm glad things are a little calmer for you now.
Andi, a new climate and new surroundings do mean you have to re-learn all the cues and prompts. I'm sorry about the wet wash.
Deena! How incredibly sweet that Kara was assisting you up the stairs. There's a big, kind heart under that incredibly cute exterior. And having had similar conversations experiences with both offspring, I wholeheartedly concur with your reaction to Nick's comment.
I meant to wish beth an easy time with her new meds. May they give you and your doctor the results you need.
ach ... it was a nasty day wasn't it.
so we saw a show On TIVO that we recorded for no reason we could remember. It is on BRAVO . Dan Finnerty and the Dan Band. Dh was vaguely ( well more than vaguely) apalled.
Regular Guy sings Girl songs.
DH said campy. I say a step above - I'd use the word Fun. The web site doesn't quite capture them. Vidoes and audio in extras.
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now I am horrifying Matt by relistening to
I want to Rock you hard this Christmas.
It is good to laugh
PC, I just caught up on all of this.
I feel for you.
Also, I think your partents are being manipulative in very inappropriate ways. From what you are describing they are setting things up in such a way to be deliberately hurtful to you and to give you no options. To me this is not a loving way to handle a child. I'm very sorry that this is happening to you. You have had very good advice from the collected folks here. The only thing I have to add at the moment is how I see the actions of your parents. Those kinds of manipulations are underhanded a dirty. Your father played a guilt trip, come home or you are forcing him to bring the whole family to you. No, that's not the way that it work. He may CHOOSE to bring the whole family to you, but you are not forcing that action.
Okay, I've got more that I could say, but I'll stop here. If you'd like more of my opinion, or just some support, contact me here on in IM.
Deena was here!!!
Nick, happily playing his guitar suddenly looks up at me and says, "I bet being a jazz musician would make you a better lover."
Not enough shudder in the world.
It really doesn't help that I think he's right. It really doesn't. Oh god, I am never having kids.
Wait. Why? I think he's right, too. Jazz is sexy.
He tried to say that was a universal you and had no bearing on the personal you, but it was too late.
Oh. You thought he meant
you you, Deena? I totally thought he meant himself/one, since he was playing the guitar. Of course, now I'm putting my dh and me in that scenario and I'm seeing an awful lot of teasing of dh if he said that to me, like, "Not tonight, dear. What do I look like--Duke Ellington," or something.
On the other hand, I've stopped the sobbing for the moment. I feel like this could be a good thing.
Oh, Cass. Can you get insist-y at your office about getting some AC in there? Working in a hot office all day isn't good for the coping skills, no matter what is going on with you, sweetie. I'm also not sure it is legal.
libkitty, your hair looks wonderful!!!
Hi, ND.
