What should I do, then? Send her a gift? Sacrifice? … Unholy fruit basket?

Angel ,'Just Rewards (2)'


Spike's Bitches 25 to Life  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


askye - Jul 12, 2005 10:33:32 am PDT #281 of 10001
Thrive to spite them

There's a really cute SGA story where Rodney is trying to fix something and Zelenka (???) and John are making comments about the male/female thing and generally acting 12.

I'm pretty sure it was on sga_flashfic, but I can't remember the name.


Stephanie - Jul 12, 2005 10:35:02 am PDT #282 of 10001
Trust my rage

I'd feel comfortable leaving any boy of mine uncut.

Once again, when it comes to the baby stuff, Plei is me. When we didn't know what we were having, though, DH told me that he was really in favor of the snipping. Thankfully, we never had to resolve the issue since it's not something you can really compromise on.

t and now I descend back to the piles of law outlines


Susan W. - Jul 12, 2005 10:54:30 am PDT #283 of 10001
Good Trouble and Righteous Fights

Annabel just said "done"! I think.

For weeks now I've been trying to get her to say "done" when she's finished eating. Instead, she's either stared at me blankly, but looked happy when I unhooked the high chair tray, or else reached down to unhook the tray herself.

Today I asked her if she was done, but got distracted from looking at her or reaching for the high chair tray when I noticed the phone was on the table next to her, and thought that I should check and make sure I didn't get any Important Voicemails while I was out running an errand (since I have job applications out and am still stalking elusive editors for that writers conference). So I picked up the phone and checked. Annabel gave me a quizzical/indignant look and said "Done?" At least, I think she did. It wasn't super-well enunciated, but that's what it sounded like. So I got her out of the chair and praised her to the skies--"That was so good, Annabel! When you talk to Mama, it's so much easier for her to know what you need!"

Sunday while playing in the living room, she walked to the door, stood on tiptoe to grab the doorknob, waved to me with her other hand, and said "Bah."

I think she's starting to figure out the talking thing. She's still in no hurry, but at least I'm pretty sure she has the idea down now.


sj - Jul 12, 2005 10:58:13 am PDT #284 of 10001
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Annabel just said "done"! I think.

Awww. Yay, Annabel!

Everyday life stuff is overwhelming me today.


Fay - Jul 12, 2005 11:07:26 am PDT #285 of 10001
"Fuck Western ideologically-motivated gender identification!" Sulu gasped, and came.

Aw, bless.

Go Team Annabel!


Daisy Jane - Jul 12, 2005 11:09:18 am PDT #286 of 10001
"This bar smells like kerosene and stripper tears."

Scary child pictures- A friend of mine is a photographer in Shreveport and does a lot of pagent pictures- no retouching, but they can still come out looking a little doll like. A lot of his look like the Brooklyn picture. Minimal makeup, but still pretty. Those look like over retouched Glamour Shots.

Male circumcision- I have a decent size sample to draw a conclusion from. I don't prefer one to the other, and un smelled just fine and was as clean as cut. You have to be a little more careful with it at times, but from where I was sitting (or laying or whatever) un vs. cut- much ado about nothing. (It does look a little strange at first, but luckily he had no body issues and was very willing to explain and let me check it out).

Nasty sports column writer- First, I agree she has no idea wtf she's saying, or I don't, and either way it doesn't make for good journalism. Second, you know, it's one thing to write about professional atheletes, or even college programs and coaches. I really don't like getting all into a college athelete's personal life. It's a line, I don't think you cross. There was an article about this very thing in SI. Because of their salaries and celebrity status, professional atheletes are fair game. College atheletes are amatuers who are students and may never go into professional sports. That's changing a bit, specifically with college basketball, still I don't think you get into a college athelete's issues off the field.

Boots- Chinese Laundry used to make vinyl boots that were stretchy in the calf. They were pretty tight, but after wearing them once, they sort of moulded to your shape. Unfortunately, this means you can never loan them (learned this the hard way when after I loaned mine, they looked like slouchy shiney legwarmers rather than painted on latex).


askye - Jul 12, 2005 11:26:29 am PDT #287 of 10001
Thrive to spite them

Heather, there have been a couple letters to the editor about the coverage of Sexton's situation. Some are on the side of giving him privacy because he is a kid and not a professional athlete. A few others felt he and any other college athlete are fair game because they are college athletes and that's part of the price.


Topic!Cindy - Jul 12, 2005 11:30:22 am PDT #288 of 10001
What is even happening?

Heather, there have been a couple letters to the editor about the coverage of Sexton's situation. Some are on the side of giving him privacy because he is a kid and not a professional athlete. A few others felt he and any other college athlete are fair game because they are college athletes and that's part of the price.
askye, is this the kid who had a really public breakdown--maybe even a stand-off with the police?

Either way, I'm of two minds on it, I guess. Some college sports really are professional sports, dressed up in amateur clothing. It depends on the sport, how hot the particular sport is in a given area, how hot the team is in its conference, and how hot the conference is, but yeah, they're still essentially kids in my book.


§ ita § - Jul 12, 2005 11:31:58 am PDT #289 of 10001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

Some college sports really are professional sports, dressed up in amateur clothing.

I think that makes me lean even more towards their privacy, since they're not even getting paid.


EpicTangent - Jul 12, 2005 11:39:40 am PDT #290 of 10001
Why isn't everyone pelting me with JOY, dammit? - Zenkitty

Yay Annabel! Go Team Communicate!

Have fun with The Law Stephanie!

((sj)) - wanna talk about it?