Plei, why can't you wear what you're wearing in the photo to your formal wedding? It looks dressy enough, and you look fabulous in the photos.
Horrible fabric, and the nursing slits tend to gap, which wouldn't be an issue if I could find a nursing bra with some structure in my size in black. I'll wear it if and only if I can't find anything else, though with the new hair, it might wind up working out. Part of the problem was that with the long hair, it just looked sloppy. (The dress, that is.)