Death is your art. You make it with your hands day after day. That final gasp, that look of peace. And part of you is desperate to know: What's it like? Where does it lead you? And now you see, that's the secret. Not the punch you didn't throw or the kicks you didn't land. She really wanted it. Every Slayer has a death wish. Even you.

Spike ,'Conversations with Dead People'


Spike's Bitches 24: I'm Very Seldom Naughty.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Volans - Jul 08, 2005 11:24:30 pm PDT #9509 of 10001
move out and draw fire

I'm sure it feels like you got a smacky-gram from the Bitches, Susan, but I hope it doesn't stop you from venting or whatever here. I am sure that having an outlet to do the hand-wringing helps a lot, and ensures that it won't communicate itself to Annabel.

I feel like part of the problem is I haven't been doing all the babytalking and songs and rhymes and pointing to things and naming them and so on because I didn't know I was supposed to!

Heh. I know I'm supposed to, and I don't do it very much. And when Mal does get to listen to rhymes, it tends to be Byron or Coleridge, because I know them by heart, but can't finish "Baa Baa Black Sheep." My bet is Mal waits until he's 4 to talk, and then his first word will be "Sennacherib."

But seriously, hairpats and calm.

To all the Bitches, in fact, as it seems like we could all use them! With a side order of no-hurties to sj.


Fay - Jul 09, 2005 12:19:01 am PDT #9510 of 10001
"Fuck Western ideologically-motivated gender identification!" Sulu gasped, and came.

I'm very sorry you felt attacked, Susan. I think Perkins and Hec and co have already said what I'd say, and expressed it better than I would. I do feel for you that you don't have those RL friends you mentioned easily accessible.


beth b - Jul 09, 2005 5:09:26 am PDT #9511 of 10001
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

Morning, Bitches.

conformation - I forgot that When I went on Advair the first time I had 3 or 4 days of rage. ( i don't generally feel rage at the level where I wish to rip strangers heads off their bodies so I can have some quiet) It is an inhaled steroid - and it isn't supposed to do that. Well, I went back on it yay breatheing) - at a much lower dose- and while it wasn't as extreme this time, it does explain my urge to growl over the last few days.


Glamcookie - Jul 09, 2005 5:10:39 am PDT #9512 of 10001
I know my own heart and understand my fellow man. But I am made unlike anyone I have ever met. I dare to say I am like no one in the whole world. - Anne Lister

A world of gronk. I'm at the Burbank airport. I feel like I actually live here lately. I already miss my sweetie, my kitties, and my bed.


billytea - Jul 09, 2005 5:12:06 am PDT #9513 of 10001
You were a wrong baby who grew up wrong. The wrong kind of wrong. It's better you hear it from a friend.

Hi all. Just back from date with Riddle Girl. Pleasant evening, and enjoyable company, but I doubt there'll be a second date. Still. First post marriage date, it's all good.


Glamcookie - Jul 09, 2005 5:13:05 am PDT #9514 of 10001
I know my own heart and understand my fellow man. But I am made unlike anyone I have ever met. I dare to say I am like no one in the whole world. - Anne Lister

And I tried to buy a book yesterday for the flight ( Breakfast with Tiffany ) but it was $25. Um, no. The book looks pretty good. It's non-fiction, written by a gay man raising his 13 year-old-niece. I've read a few good reviews. But I think I'll wait for the paperback. For now, I just have the latest crap about Jessica Simpson, Brad and Angelina, and Tom and Katie. I'm bored just thinking about it. I hope there's a decent movie on the plane (yeah, right).

ETA: Yay billytea!


Volans - Jul 09, 2005 5:53:34 am PDT #9515 of 10001
move out and draw fire

Glad you had a pleasant evening, bt. And kudos for your bravery and all, warming your way back into dating.

I had a year where I felt like I lived at the Burbank Airport too, but I was never going anywhere, just dropping off and picking up. You know, I don't miss flying.


Scrappy - Jul 09, 2005 5:58:21 am PDT #9516 of 10001
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.

Go, BT! The echidnas honor your return to the dating pool.


Topic!Cindy - Jul 09, 2005 6:04:35 am PDT #9517 of 10001
What is even happening?

billytea, I'm glad it sounds at least like a non-traumatic re-entry. Good for you!


Scrappy - Jul 09, 2005 6:24:15 am PDT #9518 of 10001
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.

BT--have you seen our friend Bob Harris's blog? [link]

He is mostly a political blogger, but he has a whole section devoted to Pudu and other cute tiny animals, some from your neck of the woods. He is a five-time Jeopardy champ and lives in sin with a former Buffy writer whose intitals are JE. He's a fab guy and I think you would like his site.