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Spike's Bitches 24: I'm Very Seldom Naughty.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Topic!Cindy - Jul 08, 2005 2:45:55 pm PDT #9443 of 10001
What is even happening?

Sparky, I'll let her know you've put out the word. Thank you so much.

Susan, that's great.

At 15 months, they worry if a child doesn't babble and make sounds (which Annabel does), or doesn't seem to understand speech and generally interact with the world around her (which Annabel does in spades), or seems to have hearing problems (certainly doesn't seem to be the case, because she responds to sounds, dances to music, etc.), but 18 months is more the appropriate time to worry about using words.
That's what I had in mind when I said leeway. That tracks with the kids I've known (none of whom know how to shut up).

When a kid is slower to come along than we expect, or seems not to keep up with her peers, I think it's pretty much par for the course for a parent not only to worry, but to feel the sort of guilt you were feeling. Do you think that the guilt fueled your worry even more than Annabel's actual verbal development?


DavidS - Jul 08, 2005 2:45:58 pm PDT #9444 of 10001
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Good nurse! Good news!

I'm glad you talked to her, Susan.

and happy that I finally got someone who didn't just handwave my concerns away.

Do you think we were handwaving? Because we said pretty much exactly what she said.


P.M. Marc - Jul 08, 2005 2:46:44 pm PDT #9445 of 10001
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

Ah, fuck.

Just had to call my mother to let her know an old friend of hers died yesterday. [link]

I'd read about him earlier in the week in the paper, but hadn't connected the name to her friend Andy until she was mentioning this morning that a mutual friend of theirs had told her day before yesterday that he was in hospital and given her the number to call him. I showed her the article this morning, before they found out he'd died.

She was going to call today.

Fuck. Poor guy. He wasn't very old.


askye - Jul 08, 2005 2:48:34 pm PDT #9446 of 10001
Thrive to spite them

I'm so sorry aobut your mother's friend.


Lee - Jul 08, 2005 2:49:09 pm PDT #9447 of 10001
The feeling you get when your brain finally lets your heart get in its pants.

Gah, Plei, that's terrible.


askye - Jul 08, 2005 2:49:51 pm PDT #9448 of 10001
Thrive to spite them

So I was geting ready to do dinner (and then tackle the dishes) when I discover the water won't come on. I call the utility company and they are sending someone out within the hour.

With my housekeeping skills "within the hour" is frightning. Thank god for my giant closet. I just wish there was some place to hide all the dirty dishes I needed to get cleaned two days ago.


Atropa - Jul 08, 2005 2:50:17 pm PDT #9449 of 10001
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.

Plei, I'm so sorry.


P.M. Marc - Jul 08, 2005 2:50:42 pm PDT #9450 of 10001
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

With my housekeeping skills "within the hour" is frightning. Thank god for my giant closet. I just wish there was some place to hide all the dirty dishes I needed to get cleaned two days ago.

Would they fit in a paper bag in the closet?


P.M. Marc - Jul 08, 2005 2:51:47 pm PDT #9451 of 10001
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

Thanks, guys. It's just a bit of a shock to have to call my mother with bad news about a third party. Never had to do that before.

Jilli! You tagged it! Hee!


Atropa - Jul 08, 2005 2:53:56 pm PDT #9452 of 10001
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.

Jilli! You tagged it! Hee!

Of course I did, silly woman.