((((P-C))))

Thanks, Lilty. I've texted her, but I hear the mobile lines are down, so I can't rely on that. Just have to wait till she finds the Internet or something.

But seriously, I'll bet she was nowhere near any explosions and has no idea people would be worried about her, just like when I was on the complete opposite end of India when the tsunami hit.

I understand that, but if someone doesn't hand in an assignment, I think it's ridiculous to give them, say, 40 points, for NOTHING. I'll work with a kid, I"ll allow them extra time to make up an assignment if they're sick or something, but if you just plain don't do it, turn it in -- I'm gonna give you what you earned.

Nope, I found a recent note from her with no mention of travel. (She does jet off to London often enough that I don't keep good track anymore.) I hope your friends are similarly tucked away safe.

Back. Anyway. I tend to cut people slack about that type of ex-pat behaviour, depending. For embassy and military personnel, American or British, sometimes there are "non-frat" rules in place, and always we have to report "close and continuing contact" with foreign nationals. So incentives are few, but a lot of embassy folks break the boundaries anyway, or at the very least associate with other ex-pats from whereever. I'm sure this security stance is the basis for the no ex-pat rule at the British Club. (edit: My bad, 'twas the BCA and not the Club. In that case, dunno. I'm guessing just your basic "private club" stupidity.)

When missionaries do the "us-and-them" thing I just want to slap them, but proselytizing is something I hate anyway. And then there are a lot of career expats, folks who've lived abroad forever, who fall into this behaviour because it's what everyone else does...I neither forgive them nor want to kill them, they just are. I suspect Fay's date is in this category. It's easier to snark, because the truth is, you will always be on the outside. You might, with work, develop some good friendships, even fall in love, but you'll never really belong. And you will never ever think squat toilets are a good idea.

Also, what do you all think of this no zero-grades policy?

I get the point of what they're trying to do, but I'm not sure it's the best way of going about it. I agree that missing one math assignment shouldn't kill one's grade, but missing a term paper probably should have a significant impact. Instead of a "no zero" policy, they should probably be sure to weight different assigments according to their importance.

IT just seems like, if you know yo're probably going to do a piss poor job on an assignment, and you'll get the same score for doing nothing, why bother doing anything? When it is my gut feeling that you will learn something by doing even a piss poor job on the assignment.

Hope your friend is okay, P-C, and checks in soon.

When it is my gut feeling that you will learn something by doing even a piss poor job on the assignment.

I'd say this depends a lot on the assignment. I've had buttloads I didn't learn anything at all from. I'm not saying they were good assignments -- I'm going to strive to make sure assignments are learning tools -- but they did exist.

Well, that's a whole other problem. Changing grading systems isn't gonna fix poor assignments.

Well, in theory you learn to do work when assigned to. Even if nothing more.