Love isn't brains, children, it's blood, blood screaming inside you to work its will.

Spike ,'Sleeper'


Spike's Bitches 24: I'm Very Seldom Naughty.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Cashmere - May 19, 2005 7:20:52 am PDT #90 of 10001
Now tagless for your comfort.

I was really hoping she wouldn't do that while somebody was there, but hey, it is funny.

Hi-FREAKIN"-larious.


Sparky1 - May 19, 2005 7:23:56 am PDT #91 of 10001
Librarian Warlord

But we know we're going to lose in the end.

This is what my DH and his family can't admit. I know that my hubby knows this in his poker-loving heart, and normally I'd hate to be the one to take his dream of the Big Win away... but once he's lost about $100, I'm ready to drag him out of there with lectures on compound interest because that's money I could have banked in the house downpayment fund. Which, I guess, boils down to being willing to bust up his dream for mine. Hey! What do you know? I'm selfish!


Cashmere - May 19, 2005 7:32:26 am PDT #92 of 10001
Now tagless for your comfort.

It's very strange for me, Sparky, because my mother is a compulsive gambler. Like, losing tens of thousands of dollars over a few years compulsive. So I am extremely ambivalent about gambling. For years I swore it off and wouldn't even entertain the idea of gambling because I've seen first-hand, how much heart ache and pain it causes.

On the other hand, by knowing those pitfalls, I'm more careful about how I go about it and really ended up enjoying it once I learned more about the games (which ones are the best payouts) and how to play. I set strict limits and walk away when I lose--because LOSING IS NOT FUN. Chasing losses is what leads to badness. DH is more caught up in the mathy aspects of the more skilled games like poker. But he LOVES craps because it's all about playing the odds and making the best bets. Craps is the best paying game odds-wise out there. As opposed to roullette. DH just shakes his head when we pass the roullette tables and says that he has no idea why anyone would play that stupid game.

Owen and dandelions


Gudanov - May 19, 2005 7:34:10 am PDT #93 of 10001
Coding and Sleeping

That's a cute pic.


Susan W. - May 19, 2005 7:34:21 am PDT #94 of 10001
Good Trouble and Righteous Fights

So glad to hear that life is good for bt, and that vw's value is appreciated by prospective employers! (And vw, putting on my unsolicited advice hat, I'd say if you're offered this job, take it and don't worry about the might-have-beens from next week's interview or any other resumes you have out there--the work itself looks fabulous and in line with your interests, and I'm sure you know how rare benefits like they're offering are with part-time work.)

Oh, and DH talked to his online community of choice about the rifle thing, and their consensus was, "We see your point about the gun, but none of those objections really apply to a bayonet or sword." Of course, my character wouldn't have had a sword, but fortunately a Baker rifle bayonet is a decorative object all by itself: [link] I'd probably get the rifle, too (if I ordered from this site, I'd have to), but I wouldn't mind storing it elsewhere. And then maybe I could add a sword or two to the collection later--that site doesn't have the kind of swords either of the next two heroes I'm planning would've worn, but maybe somebody else will....

I guess this is that "compromise" thing of which you speak.


sumi - May 19, 2005 7:37:23 am PDT #95 of 10001
Art Crawl!!!

Cashmere -- what a sweet picture of Owen!


Susan W. - May 19, 2005 7:37:54 am PDT #96 of 10001
Good Trouble and Righteous Fights

Aww....cutie Owen!


Gudanov - May 19, 2005 7:38:17 am PDT #97 of 10001
Coding and Sleeping

I guess this is that "compromise" thing of which you speak.

So does he get his Canon Rebel XT?


EpicTangent - May 19, 2005 7:46:31 am PDT #98 of 10001
Why isn't everyone pelting me with JOY, dammit? - Zenkitty

Timelies All!

BT - So great to hear about your happier Headspace. Things sound great.

vw - still vibing madly, sounds like it's working!

Cash - darn cute kid you got there. Glad your trip went so well.

Umm, don't remember anything else...


Susan W. - May 19, 2005 7:48:28 am PDT #99 of 10001
Good Trouble and Righteous Fights

Oh, I don't know if that's the specific camera he wants (it's some kind of fancy-schmancy digital), but once he told me that A) he was serious about photography, and B) our current camera is damaged and out of warranty, that much was given. It's just a matter of when, and where the money comes from. So he's getting his birthday money from his mom early and setting aside extra $$ from his paycheck toward the credit card, and plans to buy the camera before we go to Alabama next month.

ETA I am, however, still pissed that the current camera is broken already. It's only two years old! Cameras should last at least ten years, IMO.