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Spike's Bitches 24: I'm Very Seldom Naughty.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Pix - May 24, 2005 7:15:57 am PDT #831 of 10001
We're all getting played with, babe. -Weird Barbie

t leaps to end of thread

Sheesh. Scanning back, Fay and Cindy need a lot of sanity ~ma. I'm so sorry you're dealing with all of this.

Also, P-C was kind enough to link me to this, which I would otherwise have missed since I've been way behind in all but the F2F thread lately:

A small woot is in order. I just got back from seeing Katie Melua in concert. It was a most enjoyable show. Is Kristin around? She's the artist I was playing in your car while visiting. The show closed (with the exception of encores) with my fave song.

Yay, billytea! I loved that CD. I'm so glad you had a good time.

Okay, must do a metric fckload of laundry and more stressful other things than I can really count.


Cashmere - May 24, 2005 7:20:21 am PDT #832 of 10001
Now tagless for your comfort.

He thinks we owe him money because he has to recruit our replacements.

Fay, that is complete and utter bullshit. His cost for recruiting teachers is the cost of doing business. What a scum-sucking asshole.

Teppy, Owen and I met DH for lunch at Skyline. It was gooooood.


Emily - May 24, 2005 7:22:36 am PDT #833 of 10001
"In the equation E = mc⬧, c⬧ is a pretty big honking number." - Scola

Is he still here, love?

No, I'm afraid he just got home. He was supposed to be able to move into his Brand New House last weekend, but it is of course not finished (just as it was not finished last July, when it was supposed to be the first time).

Fay, Mr. Evil is acting just fiendish. And it certainly seems as though there should be contract law covering this -- how could he possibly not have signed a contract when he obviously hired you and knew you were working there? (I take it you don't have a copy of the contract.) And even if he didn't, you did, which should hold a certain amount of legal weight. Grr! Just... dastardly, and acting in very bad faith.


Emily - May 24, 2005 7:24:40 am PDT #834 of 10001
"In the equation E = mc⬧, c⬧ is a pretty big honking number." - Scola

He thinks we owe him money because he has to recruit our replacements.

Which is totally attempting to have it both ways, because if there's no contract obliging him to pay you, there certainly can't be one obliging you to do anything at all for him, especially something so farcical as this. What an.... arrrrg.


Deena - May 24, 2005 7:25:52 am PDT #835 of 10001
How are you me? You need to stop that. Only I can be me. ~Kara

I really doubt that he can in any way charge you for the cost of recruitment. He thinks he has a couple of scared little girls in a foreign country to play with and that if he growls loudly enough you'll fall into line. He's incompetent and immoral.


Fay - May 24, 2005 7:37:23 am PDT #836 of 10001
"Fuck Western ideologically-motivated gender identification!" Sulu gasped, and came.

He is beyond stupid, to imagine that I'm going to be intimidated by any of this. But I really want to be sure that we're not opening any legal can of worms - I'm conscious that (a) I ticked a box indicating I would be renewing my contract, and then turned around and said I wouldn't after all. And that (b) he had told us there would be a clause preventing us from working in the city for anyone else for 3 years after the commencement of the contract. I know I was expecting it, but when it wasn't in the contract I was given, I just thought "yay!" and didn't quibble. God knows I'd had enough unpleasant surprises (no salary until the end of the 2nd month, hardly any chairs and tables, no reading scheme, scanty and outdated resources, no policies of any kind, no subject co-ordinators etc etc etc) so having a pleasant surprise seemed like my karmic due by that point.

If he has the wit to remember, he did email me a copy of someone else's contract after I'd accepted his job offer. As a sample. He said it was an old contract, and that mine would be the same kind of thing but with different name and salary. I've gone back to check through it, and I find that it did contain that clause. It wasn't my contract, though. It was some other bloke's. The contract I was eventually given with my name on it and my salary did not contain the clause.

If I were a lawyer inclined to screw me, though, I fear that I could probably make something of that.


Trudy Booth - May 24, 2005 7:39:13 am PDT #837 of 10001
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart

I would guess he never signs the contracts. Fucker.


Anne W. - May 24, 2005 7:41:29 am PDT #838 of 10001
The lost sheep grow teeth, forsake their lambs, and lie with the lions.

What does New!Employer have to say about all this, Fay?


Deena - May 24, 2005 7:42:37 am PDT #839 of 10001
How are you me? You need to stop that. Only I can be me. ~Kara

Fay, I am so sorry for the situation you're in. I hope this is all just an unpleasant memory in a very short time.


Cashmere - May 24, 2005 7:47:13 am PDT #840 of 10001
Now tagless for your comfort.

Want. Pirate. Panties.