Aimee, did you tell them you friended? I'm not sure how you would know that unless you were in their user info area. Which I personally never am.

some folks can want to keep things close to the chest until they know what is happening and prepare themselves. I can understand not having the resources to deal with other folks, even other folks' good wishes at a time like that,

This is me, exactly. Good or bad, when big things are afoot I need some processing time before I can let it out.

Aimee, did you tell them you friended?

Well now that would be direct and give me no reason to whine about it, so no.

Well now that would be direct and give me no reason to whine about it, so no.

Heh. Silly Empress.

Hee.

I just checked my f-list and found two people who friended me who knows when. Oops.

I am lame.

In LJ, if you friended someone and they never friended you back, it's a pretty safe bet that they could give a shit, yes?

*sniff* Teppy totally hates me! Except not really. I don't think.

This is a fun little dealie to keep track of when you've been friended. AND unfriended. OH SNAP.

I never remember to look to see who's friended me lately.

I friended Clovis, and he never friended me back.

He hates me.

I friended Clovis, and he never friended me back.

He hates me.

No he most certainly doesn't. He's just very busy, what with being an evil overlord and all. I'll remind him to update his FL when I get home.

Tell Clovis to EAT IT.

(Um...but don't be surprised if he does)

some folks can want to keep things close to the chest until they know what is happening and prepare themselves.

This is particularly true with breast cancer. (Okay, it struck me funny, anyway.)