Ok, she took 6 oz of formula no prob and is napping. Doc will see her at 3:30 and I'm having Working Mother Guilt issues.
I missed work on Monday. And now Em's sick and I missing today. I need to take care of my daughter - no question. Even if I'm just having new mom freak out. But I need to do my job, too. I feel like I'm letting them down. If she's sick tomorrow then Joe's staying home (it's why he got the permanent job, after all) and I can work Saturday to catch up but damn I hate this.
t /so completely first world whining
I'm having Working Mother Guilt issues
Sorry to say it never gets better. I always feel like I do a half-assed job at work because I am distracted by family, and I do a half-assed job of mothering because I am distracted by work.
Luckily my children and customers feel I do I good job at both. I know this is the case with you too. Just do the best you can sweety.
But I don't want to do mt best! I want to just
have
it all!!!
You can have it all and climb Mt. Best too, don't sell yourself short!
t gives Gud the stink-eye with a bit of a smile.
Catching up to say Congratulations, KB! It must feel wonderful to have a few things to choose from after waiting so long!
Happy Birthday, Stephanie!
Finally caught up after a busy-busy few days.
Happy Birthday Stephanie!!!
Congrats to KB, ouch-that's-SO-what-I-do-style sympathy to Kristen, feel-better-ma to wee Em, no-seriously-you're-doing-great-ma to Empress Mommy.
Lilty, I totally feel your pain. My best friend needs to leave her job (before they finish trampling her soul), and can't find anything doing what she wants to do around here. She had an interview last week in TX, and she's leaving tomorrow for one in MD. I'm in denial/panic mode - I have a few other local friends, but not another BEST friend. But I also know she needs to do this and I can't hold her back. Sucks tryin' to be mature, huh? (The money thing, too. Use your folks as a safety net, since you can and they don't mind. Happens to the best of us).
That's all I can remember. Hope I didn't forget anything important.
edited 'cuz "Stephanie"-colored was not as festive as I had in mind.
Use your folks as a safety net, since you can and they don't mind.
I think this is what it'll be. For one, I think my mother is actually happy. She was the one to suggest it, after I went over agonizing over the best way to ask if it was a possibility. I said "Sam's moving." and she said "Shit, hon, I'm sorry. Want to move home? You can have your own wing." (FTR, my parents live in a glorified trailer.) I think she'll like having someone to talk to again. And I'll feel better knowing that I can give her a couple hundred a month to help out.
I'm really going to miss Sam, though. We have a good time.
Lilty, I'd say that it's no big deal at your age to move back in and save some money before you make a bigger leap to Somerville. It sounds like a good opportunity for you. Take advantage of it.
I missed work on Monday. And now Em's sick and I missing today. I need to take care of my daughter - no question. Even if I'm just having new mom freak out. But I need to do my job, too. I feel like I'm letting them down. If she's sick tomorrow then Joe's staying home (it's why he got the permanent job, after all) and I can work Saturday to catch up but damn I hate this.
Awww. Thing is, folks are work are more accomodating about parental stuff than you might think. There is some tension in juggling the responsibilities, but my jobs always appreciated when I'd work out halfdays with EM to cover Emmett being sick. That made a big difference because if you can just get to the office for three hours you can answer calls and deal with emergencies, and the rest is maintenance stuff that'll wait.
It's fucking gorgeous in San Francisco again. I don't think anybody wants to be at work. I miss my minion, because I'd drag her off on a coffee break at the Ferry Building and we'd gab for a bit.
