Wedding survived. And really, it turned out nice, and on the day they were nice, helpful people, to the point I feel guilty for bitching so much about them! I'm so so very tired, though.

I'm wondering what the safest way to clean it -- if there would be a safe way.

I've had better luck washing antique fabrics myself than using dry cleaners. I just use a mild detergent and wash them by hand. Fabric is much more fragile when it's wet, so don't pick it up directly. Wash it using something under it like a pillowcase or a towel, so you pick it up out of the water holding that rather than the old fabric. Don't wring it. Just roll it up in a towel to take out the excess moisture. You'll want to store it wrapped in acidfree tissue paper in an acidfree box. Don't keep it in a plastic bag.

I'm glad she turned out to not really be a bridezilla, Susan.

I'm so glad that it went well. I hope that you have a couple of extremely restful days to recover.

And for something completely different: when you are taking an iron supplement -- how long before you should start seeing a benefit? (I've now just realized that I have - again - forgotten to take the second dose.)

Perhaps I would see the benefit if only I would remember to take the evening dose.

Askye, best bet is to ask the local museum, if you have one, who they'd recommend to clean it.

If you can't get any help, water-test a small piece of fabric (inside the hem would be good). If it seems to be okay with water -- baby wear is probably either cotton or linen, so should be fine, clean it with Orvus. You can get Orvus expensively at a quilting shop or cheaply at a livestock care shop.

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You're not jerks, Erika. When we go to Thanksgiving at SiL's house we have to prep for BiL's loud, opinionated, VERY right wing father. We have a secret "just chill" signal to helo each other not rise to the bait. We go there for the SiL and the niece and nephews, and concentrate on them---since we figure they suffer enough in being related to an asshole.

Are we jerks if we just send a gift?

Not jerks at all. A gift is a nice gesture and if the situation is going to expose you to people who make your head go "boom" I don't see it absolutely necessary to make a personal appearance.

erika, I agree with everyone else...TOTALLY not jerks at all!

Timelies! I need coffee...fortunately, it is making itself right now.

Want to come make me some, vw?

Absolutely, Perkins!

You wanna pay for my plane ticket? ;)