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Spike's Bitches 24: I'm Very Seldom Naughty.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Aims - Jun 08, 2005 10:06:34 am PDT #3472 of 10001
Shit's all sorts of different now.

That's not a time out. That's putting her in her exersaucer. If putting Em in her walker counts as a time out when I need her doing something while I do something, she's been in time out for like months.


Susan W. - Jun 08, 2005 10:10:56 am PDT #3473 of 10001
Good Trouble and Righteous Fights

Well, I feel like Annabel needs her roam time now that she's so big. If I left her in the exersaucer all the time, she wouldn't be learning to run and climb. But sometimes it's all I can think of to do when I'm having to pull her away from the bookshelves every 30 seconds.


Cashmere - Jun 08, 2005 10:12:50 am PDT #3474 of 10001
Now tagless for your comfort.

since it's an e-ticket, and we need the card used to purchase the tickets to get our boarding passes.

I always use e-tickets and they just request any credit card--not necessarily the one I purchased the ticket with. It calls up the itinerary, not the billing.

If you put her in the playpen or exersaucer for a time out, will she associate those with punishment? I don't think it's considered a "time-out" if you simply remove her from whatever's tempting her. I associate "time-out" with a quiet, empty spot with no toys so they can be punished--which at this point, I think, is beyond Owen. He wouldn't know a time-out simply because he can't really focus on what he's done wrong.

But he does understand "no" and usually cries when I tell him no. I'm just lucky at this point because he actually listens. For now.

I'm practicing not laughing at him because it's hilarious when I tell him no, he looks up, bewildered. Then screws up his face and cries. Then he wanders off to find something else to get into.


Aims - Jun 08, 2005 10:12:56 am PDT #3475 of 10001
Shit's all sorts of different now.

You could tie her to something.

Just kidding.

She's fine in the exersaucer. When you are done with what you're doing, take her outside and let her run all over like a wild child. Then, she'll nap. And you'll get even more done.


-t - Jun 08, 2005 10:14:46 am PDT #3476 of 10001
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

That's why things like the exersaucer were invented, Susan. 5-10 minutes sounds fine.


Aims - Jun 08, 2005 10:14:52 am PDT #3477 of 10001
Shit's all sorts of different now.

IMyBabyNews, Em has learned to pull herself up onto her knees and feet in her crib in the morning. She stands there and yells at me to wake up and she looks like she's in some cherry stained jailcell. Cutest Thing Ever.


Amy - Jun 08, 2005 10:14:53 am PDT #3478 of 10001
Because books.

Is Annabel too young for short time-outs?

I don't think she'd get it yet. Putting her in the exersaucer when she won't respect a "No, you cannot pick through the garbage can!" (Sara's big thing) is perfectly appropriate -- she still gets the message that what she doing before is not okay, and she's being removed from the situation.


-t - Jun 08, 2005 10:16:54 am PDT #3479 of 10001
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

I was told once (by a ticket agent) that you can even use your Driver's License to get your e-tickets if it has a magnetic strip. Can you call the airline and ask?


Nora Deirdre - Jun 08, 2005 10:17:18 am PDT #3480 of 10001
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

yeah, I use my FF card.


Amy - Jun 08, 2005 10:19:27 am PDT #3481 of 10001
Because books.

He wouldn't know a time-out simply because he can't really focus on what he's done wrong.

This is what I meant -- Sara wouldn't understand a time out chair, or something like that. Usually with her a really firm "no" and carrying her into another room, or simply taking something away from her, does the trick. Annabel's so little still (and O, too) that I don't think she'll associate the exersaucer with punishment, she'll just know that what she was doign before was not okay.