I just think it's rather odd that a nation that prides itself on its virility should feel compelled to strap on forty pounds of protective gear just in order to play rugby.

Giles ,'Beneath You'


Spike's Bitches 24: I'm Very Seldom Naughty.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Susan W. - Jun 04, 2005 9:00:19 am PDT #2668 of 10001
Good Trouble and Righteous Fights

Were you induced, Susan?

Yep. Between the induction and the sheer amount of drugs in my system by the end, my experience is completely useless for things like knowing when other people are in labor or applying personal experience to my 19th century childbirth scenes.


Amy - Jun 04, 2005 9:04:40 am PDT #2669 of 10001
Because books.

my experience is completely useless for things like knowing when other people are in labor or applying personal experience to my 19th century childbirth scenes

The thing is, it's different for everyone, and it's different with different pregnancies. My labor with Ben was nothing like my labor with Sara. So you can pretty much make it up. As long as you've contractions and pain in there, you can write a birth scene.


Susan W. - Jun 04, 2005 9:45:02 am PDT #2670 of 10001
Good Trouble and Righteous Fights

As long as you've contractions and pain in there, you can write a birth scene.

Probably true. I did have one of my CPs suggest a minor alteration to make the childbirth scene in my first chapter, and I went along with it, because I have no memory whatsoever from the first 30 minutes or so after Annabel was born other than when they first held her up (and I swear she looked as big in my eyes as she actually *is* now!), and that I thought she wasn't crying loudly enough and therefore there must be something wrong with her. (There wasn't--her apgars were 9 and 10. She was a tough kid right from the start.)

Incidentally, that childbirth scene is getting rave reviews from CPs and contest judges, on the whole--thanks for giving me the idea in the first place!

Though I'm still kicking myself for not doing a better job on the synopsis. It's depressing having a judge or two not think my story is all that romantic, when in my mind it's just the most romantic thing EVAH, all because my synopsis left 90% of the romance arc out, because I figured all the starcrossed love and angst would be self-evident from the set-up.


sj - Jun 04, 2005 9:48:59 am PDT #2671 of 10001
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

I have become the girl who spends Saturday morning looking at cookbooks so I can decide what to make for dinner for my boyfriend. I like it.

Much labor~ma to you, Stephanie. I am stunned at how calm you sound. Looking forward to more baby pictures.

Eve is adorable with her new haircut.

I think I need to take a buffista baby tour of the country.


beth b - Jun 04, 2005 10:08:49 am PDT #2672 of 10001
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

sending the ma~ towards stephanie

my cat is unhappy that we pulled up the rugs. so he went outside ate grass and then threw up all over the floors. Little does he know that that is part of the reason for pulling up the carpet.


Lyra Jane - Jun 04, 2005 11:31:25 am PDT #2673 of 10001
Up with the sun

Easy birth~ma to Stephanie.


Cass - Jun 04, 2005 11:50:43 am PDT #2674 of 10001
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

OMG, I just earned the race slut title.

I think I just hit on a driver and told him that he'd be a lovely festive birthday present for me.

Never lust and post...


sj - Jun 04, 2005 12:12:58 pm PDT #2675 of 10001
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Go you, you racing slut!'

Any man would be crazy not to want to be the birthday present of our Cassiepants.


Cass - Jun 04, 2005 12:17:13 pm PDT #2676 of 10001
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

Turns out I have, once again, failed to catch him between wives.

And the conversation is immortalized on the interbunny.

I don't know whether I should be giddy he talked to me or sad he turned me down cause of the married.


sj - Jun 04, 2005 12:19:30 pm PDT #2677 of 10001
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Choose giddy.