I am not...I am not the damsel in distress. I am not some case. I have to work this. I've lived in a cave for 5 years in a world where they killed my kind like cattle. I am not going to be cut down by some monster flu. I am better than that. What a wonder...how very scared I am.

Fred ,'A Hole in the World'


Spike's Bitches 24: I'm Very Seldom Naughty.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


sj - Jun 01, 2005 6:42:23 pm PDT #2232 of 10001
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Everything should be about our Cassiepants. Speaking of which, insent, Cass.


Cass - Jun 01, 2005 6:44:00 pm PDT #2233 of 10001
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

t preens

All about meeeeeeeeeee...

t reads Trudy's tag

t dies


Pix - Jun 01, 2005 6:52:42 pm PDT #2234 of 10001
We're all getting played with, babe. -Weird Barbie

t tacklehugs Trudy and Cass and sj


Scrappy - Jun 01, 2005 6:52:51 pm PDT #2235 of 10001
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.

Susan, I know you feel awfully down in the dumps, and I can see why (because car troubles with no money SUCK), but you have your health and a beautiful healthy daughter and a loving husband and a home and lots of skills you can use to get an interesting job which will serve you as you finish your novel--and that's the last most important thing you have--your ambition and writing talent. On the big scales, your life has way more pros than cons--even right now during a particularly tough time.


Susan W. - Jun 01, 2005 7:03:44 pm PDT #2236 of 10001
Good Trouble and Righteous Fights

I know you're right, Robin. I just wish I knew what to do WRT finding a job. Based on all my previous experience, I know the single most critical thing is that I avoid any position where I'll be micromanaged. I'm only happy at work if I'm minimally supervised--just give me a project or program and turn me loose. Don't tell me how to do everything or ask for updates every day or generally breathe down my neck. But I don't know how to tease that info out of job listings or interviews. I can't exactly tell a hiring manager, "If you want good work out of me, just leave me the fuck alone and let me get on with it. I'm smart enough to figure most things out on my own, and if I get stuck, I'm not too proud to ask for help."

What I'd really love to do is work from home, but I don't know where to find legit work-from-home opportunities.

Oh, and DH still hasn't called. It's been two hours.


DebetEsse - Jun 01, 2005 7:05:55 pm PDT #2237 of 10001
Woe to the fucking wicked.

Cass, Trudy's tag has been cracking me up all week.


Trudy Booth - Jun 01, 2005 7:06:16 pm PDT #2238 of 10001
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart

Kwistin AND Robin are here too? It IS a party!


Trudy Booth - Jun 01, 2005 7:11:50 pm PDT #2239 of 10001
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart

ABI!!!!!!

This is just splendiferous.

Trudy's tag has been cracking me up all week.

If I don't have a job in the next few days maybe I WILL put my mad fellatory skills to work, dammit.

Actually I am, seriously, considering bartender school. I have a project coming down the pike and (unless I can get the job with Firm C) a new full-time gig won't allow for the needed time off. Between unemployment and severance and the odd bartending gig I may try to get through the summer piecemeal.

Of course, I should be WORKING ON MATERIAL for said project. Instead I'm here with y'all. Aw hell, lyrics aren't good unless they're written in the wee hours anyway -- everyone knows that.


Susan W. - Jun 01, 2005 7:13:45 pm PDT #2240 of 10001
Good Trouble and Righteous Fights

Just called DH. Tow truck is almost to the Mazda place. I'm about to wake up Princess Sleepyhead and go get him. He doesn't sound like King Gloom anymore.

(Huh. Looking at the nicknames above, I wonder if I'm watching too much PBS Kids stuff of late....)


DebetEsse - Jun 01, 2005 7:16:40 pm PDT #2241 of 10001
Woe to the fucking wicked.

TRUDES!!! The best material does spontaneously appear at 2 am, it is true. Would the schedule for bartending work for you?

Car-ma to you, Susan.