Oh, God. Oh, God. My hair. My hair! The government gave me bad hair!

Cordelia ,'The Cautionary Tale of Numero Cinco'


What Happens in Natter 35 Stays in Natter 35  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


JohnSweden - May 13, 2005 9:26:38 pm PDT #4117 of 10001
I can't even.

Ah, thanks Jen.


Allyson - May 13, 2005 9:52:12 pm PDT #4118 of 10001
Wait, is this real-world child support, where the money goes to buy food for the kids, or MRA fantasyland child support where the women just buy Ferraris and cocaine? -Jessica

Up until recently, it's been unheard of for people's personal interactions to be recorded verbatim and to be kept for all time.

There's about 5 years of The Bronze archived going back to 98 I think. I'm not sure if The Well archives, but it just celebrated its 20 year anniversary as an internet community, so they've been there done that.

If you're really interested, google up the writings of Clay Shirky, he has some fascinating studies on 'net communities. Also, as far as Bitch Cabal goes, google Snacky's Law.

I've been thinking far too much about internet communities lately.

A friend I was talking to about my book asked me if I'd ever consider diving into another community. I tried out The Well and it was just Too Much Work.

I've put too much Self into Buffistas and the Bronze to have to re-explain and rebuild.


Atropa - May 13, 2005 10:11:58 pm PDT #4119 of 10001
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.

Also, I'm certain that Paul will be a Dad JUST LIKE JILLI'S. Which is a scary thought, but funny.

blink blink blink

OMG, you're right. What a terrifying, but hysterical thought. I'm going to giggle about this for hours.


P.M. Marc - May 13, 2005 10:51:36 pm PDT #4120 of 10001
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

OMG, you're right. What a terrifying, but hysterical thought. I'm going to giggle about this for hours.

It's so very true! He's on record as saying that parents lie to their children all the time, so they might as well make them interesting lies.

Potato rustlers are not far behind a statement like that.

There's about 5 years of The Bronze archived going back to 98 I think. I'm not sure if The Well archives, but it just celebrated its 20 year anniversary as an internet community, so they've been there done that.

There's a scary amount of stuff in the Usenet archives. The only things under my legal name out there are all at least 10/11 years old (I stopped using it online around then), and in said archives or attached to random net petitions/BBS listings from back in the fuckin' day.

I was just thinking the other night about my first experience with a serious sock puppet (I keep meaning to ask my friend who was the sock puppet--this is back in the day of local, single line BBS culture, so sock puppets had an as-of-yet unmatched ability to get down, personal, and dirty, as everyone involved knew each other IRL as well, often in the biblical sense--if he regrets his decision to log in under a different account for the purposes of stirring up shit best left settling in the tank), which was at least 12 years ago.

Occasionally, I wish quartz.rutgers.edu was archived, so I can wince at the memory of myself at 19.


Volans - May 14, 2005 1:30:44 am PDT #4121 of 10001
move out and draw fire

Yeah, I found The Well too much work also. At this point, I'm here, and get digests mailed to me from some usenet and yahoo groups. I almost never even read the digests.

Internet communities ARE an interesting thing, though.

there is a core powerful group who run everything merely by being loud and pushy

HA. The CPGWRE are actually lurkers.

The University of Oregon's history department is a bordello? Clearly I went to the wrong school for a history degree.


DXMachina - May 14, 2005 3:00:33 am PDT #4122 of 10001
You always do this. We get tipsy, and you take advantage of my love of the scientific method.

Chicken ranch?

Wasn't that what they called the brothel that The Best Little Whorehouse in Texas was based on?


vw bug - May 14, 2005 4:12:58 am PDT #4123 of 10001
Mostly lurking...

If you're really interested, google up the writings of Clay Shirky, he has some fascinating studies on 'net communities. Also, as far as Bitch Cabal goes, google Snacky's Law.

Also, head over to your library and check out Sherry Turkle's book, Life on the Screen.

I've been thinking far too much about internet communities lately.

Ditto. And my summer is going to be wrapped up in more thinking. Yay!


§ ita § - May 14, 2005 5:30:27 am PDT #4124 of 10001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

You're right, Trudy. The above discussion isn't universal.

However, I've not yet been exposed at length to an online community of any cohesiveness that didn't have the phenomenon. I don't think it was discussed, for instance, on soc.culture.african.american, for instance. It just was. Some people were louder than others, and some people agitated for change louder than others.

And not just cohesive -- I'd say another defining characteristic would be an online community in which the members had any say other than purely conversational in defining rules and characteristics.

Of course it can be a bad thing, but it being bad is certainly not universal.


Trudy Booth - May 14, 2005 5:49:51 am PDT #4125 of 10001
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart

You're right, Trudy. The above discussion isn't universal.

However, I've not yet been exposed at length to an online community of any cohesiveness that didn't have the phenomenon.

I meant the phenomenon, not the discussion.

Like I said, I've been in two where a) people basically get along and when they don't, b) NOBODY gets a pass for acting nasty, regardless of their status or history or "social capital" in the group. (That would be the phenomenon, Robin, not the loud/squeaky wheel getting the grease -- the the thing that makes nice people give up and walk isn't the "cabal" it's the "bitch")


§ ita § - May 14, 2005 5:57:05 am PDT #4126 of 10001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

This is precisely why the discussion doesn't benefit from summarisation. I was referring to a different part of Rafmun's post than you were, Trudy, I now see.