BF has told me many times that he is not the boss of me in any way, but he likes my face the way it is and looks forward to seeing how I look through the years with no surgical intervention. That and "please, no french bangs" are the only two dressing limitations he's ever suggested in 10 years. Everything else has been in the nature of comments which widened my sartorial choices--like saying he didn't see why I felt self-conscious in jeans because i looked great in them or that my feeling my arms were too gigantor to wear sleeveless things was "insane."
I seen you without your clothes on before. Never thought I'd see you naked.
Mal ,'Trash'
What Happens in Natter 35 Stays in Natter 35
Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.
Scrappy - May 10, 2005 1:34:52 pm PDT #2961 of 10001
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.
§ ita § - May 10, 2005 1:36:07 pm PDT #2962 of 10001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.
don't "take care" of themselves
Oy. I knew a guy like this. Shame he never got to see me in my work clothes until after we stopped sleeping together. I enjoyed the look on his face.
Atropa - May 10, 2005 1:36:10 pm PDT #2963 of 10001
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.
As for the what men find attractive thing. I absolutely know men who have stated they will not date women for the following reasons:
Wow. I don't suppose those guys do all those things themselves, do they?
Daisy Jane - May 10, 2005 1:36:22 pm PDT #2964 of 10001
"This bar smells like kerosene and stripper tears."
Of all the guys I know, I know one like that. The rest of them had rather have a girl who can hang with the guys, likes good food and having a good time. They'd like it if she made herself all pretty to do those things, but they'd be fine if she did it in jeans and a t-shirt too. But then, I know some awesome guys.
§ ita § - May 10, 2005 1:38:19 pm PDT #2965 of 10001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.
I don't suppose those guys do all those things themselves
Metrosexuals are very annoying when they remove this ammo.
Glamcookie - May 10, 2005 1:38:37 pm PDT #2966 of 10001
I know my own heart and understand my fellow man. But I am made unlike anyone I have ever met. I dare to say I am like no one in the whole world. - Anne Lister
Heather's guy description has been my experience as well. Then again, I think I'd ditch any guy who was into the Barbie thing anyway.
msbelle - May 10, 2005 1:39:48 pm PDT #2967 of 10001
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb
I know several straight guys who have more of a regiman about their physical appearance than I do. They also tend to be extreme neat freaks.
Scrappy - May 10, 2005 1:40:17 pm PDT #2968 of 10001
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.
I know a woman who gave her BF tooth veneers and he gave her breast implants for Christmas. They were very well-suited.
Glamcookie - May 10, 2005 1:40:55 pm PDT #2969 of 10001
I know my own heart and understand my fellow man. But I am made unlike anyone I have ever met. I dare to say I am like no one in the whole world. - Anne Lister
ew
Aims - May 10, 2005 1:42:09 pm PDT #2970 of 10001
Shit's all sorts of different now.