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Spike's Bitches 23: We've mastered the power of positive giving up.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Connie Neil - May 04, 2005 9:11:30 am PDT #7343 of 10001
brillig

diet Coke has no carbs. The dietician at the diabetes center said, "I drink lots of diet Coke, don't worry about it. Did you know the aspartame studies were funded by the Sugar Board?"


Daisy Jane - May 04, 2005 9:12:21 am PDT #7344 of 10001
"This bar smells like kerosene and stripper tears."

Heh. The people who were in SF for Nillyfest got to witness me getting my low-blood-sugar bitch on at a restaurant hostess who wouldn't seat us at the *completely empty* tables. Tep + low blood sugar = smiting

I understand a low blood sugar cranky feeling (I don't get them, but one of my best friends-who will be in NO with me-does) but, I feel a little defensive about the hostess. I was a hostess for a long time while in school- even though the tables are empty, they may not have servers for them. They cut down on waitstaff at certain times so that there's an overlap. Waiters who come in at say 9 will have certain sections, leaving one or two open for the people who come in at maybe noon (when those will open up) and then the 9 people will leave at 2 when lunch is dying down and their sections will be empty to be filled by those who come in for the dinner rush. If the place got an unexpected bump from a large group coming in at one of the times when one shift was gone, there may be empty tables, but they're not open in the sense that the section is unmanned.

t /service industry bug


brenda m - May 04, 2005 9:12:38 am PDT #7345 of 10001
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

My dentist told me to knock off the diet coke habit. I've been doing really well - one or two a week instead of one or two a day - but it's not easy.


beth b - May 04, 2005 9:12:40 am PDT #7346 of 10001
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

people always say that eating higher fiber makes you feel fuller longer- I don't actually notice that. but i can say that mood swings for blood sugar swings - that I do notice. I can eat some sugar. It is just that I need to think about it. - or maybe more importantly Notice what I eat.


Cashmere - May 04, 2005 9:13:12 am PDT #7347 of 10001
Now tagless for your comfort.

When I had the GD, it helped me establish what an acceptable amount of carbs per meal/snack actually is. I always eat whole grain bread, anyway--but if I only use one piece, I can also have a half an apple or a handful of chips with my sandwich. It's a matter of figuring out what I want to blow my carbs on for any particular meal.

This is my ideal, of course. It doesn't happen every meal or even every day.

Portion control is my biggest battle. I suffer from portion creep. It keeps getting slightly bigger until I realize I've gone over the edge and getting back down is difficult.


beathen - May 04, 2005 9:15:40 am PDT #7348 of 10001
Sure I went over to the Dark Side, but just to pick up a few things.

Congratulations Stephanie!


beth b - May 04, 2005 9:16:30 am PDT #7349 of 10001
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

heather - I understand you defense. but it was really wierd. Those were the tables we were going to be sat at- but they weren't set - meaning oddly , that there were no menus on the table. We just wanted to sit at them - and said we realized that the the tables weren't set, but we were more than willing to forgive this lack if they would let us sit.


Beverly - May 04, 2005 9:17:56 am PDT #7350 of 10001
Days shrink and grow cold, sunlight through leaves is my song. Winter is long.

Notice what I eat.

Dingdingding! This. It was the one thing I was SO resistant to, being aware of everything I ate. It's why some diet plans and some doctors have you keep a food diary, and I hated doing that, because I do eat out of boredom or when I'm sad or scared or happy or celebratory, you know, ALL the time. And I hated being forced to confront that about myself.

But being mindful about what I eat also means that I can allow myself to fully enjoy the things I do like to eat. That means eating the stuff I'm meh about isn't such a chore when I think of it as taking care of myself.

Changing my way of eating did require giving up some pleasures. But once I became aware of the difference in how I felt, it wasn't a "sacrifice" anymore.


sj - May 04, 2005 9:18:17 am PDT #7351 of 10001
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

No low carb diet. EVER. No way, no how. I love bread too much. And potatoes. And pasta. And Dr Pepper. Take away carbs, you take away all the pleasure of eating, AFAIC.

This is me.

I become a total hellbitch if I go too long without eating. It gets much worse if I go without a meal around the same time I have PMS. Speaking of which, I am starting to feel really shaky. I don't know if it is the meds or that I haven't had anything but coffee yet today.


Topic!Cindy - May 04, 2005 9:19:20 am PDT #7352 of 10001
What is even happening?

Cashmere, I'm apt to have a one piece of bread sandwich, myself, even when I'm eating the healthier breads.

I really need to get some food with some food in it, back in this house.