When you look back at this, in the three seconds it'll take you to turn to dust, I think you'll find the mistake was touching my stuff.

Buffy ,'Lessons'


Spike's Bitches 23: We've mastered the power of positive giving up.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Fred Pete - Apr 26, 2005 11:28:16 am PDT #5856 of 10001
Ann, that's a ferret.

But there are other ways to learn to have sex, outside of porn. Or am I not following?

Steph, I think it's that youth often get their first view of what sex is "really" like from porn. (I first saw a Playboy at 12 or 13, which means I can only imagine what today's Internet-capable pubescents can get access to.) And porn is so different from reality that it can skew expectations.


§ ita § - Apr 26, 2005 11:29:48 am PDT #5857 of 10001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

And porn is so different from reality that it can skew expectations.

Maybe I just didn't consume enough porn, or I have an unrealistic sex life, but it was an easily correctable issue.

Movie love isn't like real life love either, is it? Not to mention apartment rentals and wardrobes.


Steph L. - Apr 26, 2005 11:32:14 am PDT #5858 of 10001
I look more rad than Lutheranism

And porn is so different from reality that it can skew expectations.

Maybe I just didn't consume enough porn, or I have an unrealistic sex life, but it was an easily correctable issue.

Same here. I don't blame diappointing sex on the expectations generated by porn; I blame it on not enough practice/too much booze/too much ego.


DavidS - Apr 26, 2005 11:32:46 am PDT #5859 of 10001
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Movie love isn't like real life love either, is it? Not to mention apartment rentals and wardrobes.

But movie fighting is exactly like real fighting, right?


DavidS - Apr 26, 2005 11:33:50 am PDT #5860 of 10001
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

too much ego.

Teppy's brain: "I'm good at softball and writing. This blowjob stuff will be easy..."


Ginger - Apr 26, 2005 11:34:20 am PDT #5861 of 10001
"It didn't taste good. It tasted soooo horrible. It tasted like....a vodka martini." - Matilda

It is just like Midol + codeine, as in it has 50mg of caffeine per tablet.

My lord. It's the world's most perfect drug.


Fred Pete - Apr 26, 2005 11:34:24 am PDT #5862 of 10001
Ann, that's a ferret.

Kids are also more likely to see real life love, financial stuff, and fighting than sex.


§ ita § - Apr 26, 2005 11:34:27 am PDT #5863 of 10001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

But movie fighting is exactly like real fighting, right?

It is the way I do it...


-t - Apr 26, 2005 11:36:08 am PDT #5864 of 10001
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

I think all my porn watching has been post-virginity.


DavidS - Apr 26, 2005 11:36:25 am PDT #5865 of 10001
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

It is the way I do it...

::maps this back to the porn conversation...: