She growls?! You made her so she growls?!

Buffy ,'Get It Done'


Spike's Bitches 23: We've mastered the power of positive giving up.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


DavidS - Apr 26, 2005 11:23:15 am PDT #5852 of 10001
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Your high-horse doesn't get any taller when you quote things out of context, dear.

Honestly Trudy, there's no high horse involved in this porn discussion. For lo, I have taken a strongly opinionated stand about something which is obviously a matter of individual taste in the interests of humor. Much like calling somebody a Cilantro Crybaby.


Steph L. - Apr 26, 2005 11:23:35 am PDT #5853 of 10001
I look more rad than Lutheranism

The problem with porn being unrealistic, as opposed to car chases being unrealistic, is that there are other medium to "learn" to drive.

But there are other ways to learn to have sex, outside of porn. Or am I not following?


§ ita § - Apr 26, 2005 11:23:37 am PDT #5854 of 10001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

Robson Green was charm personified on The Kumars at 42.

I miss the days when BBC America was all-Robson all-the-time (Trust, Wire, Take Me) -- but my favourite is Me & Mrs Jones. Hey! In May, they're showing Second Sight with our other shared boyfriend.


Scrappy - Apr 26, 2005 11:26:24 am PDT #5855 of 10001
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.

Leaves work to go set TiVO immediately


Fred Pete - Apr 26, 2005 11:28:16 am PDT #5856 of 10001
Ann, that's a ferret.

But there are other ways to learn to have sex, outside of porn. Or am I not following?

Steph, I think it's that youth often get their first view of what sex is "really" like from porn. (I first saw a Playboy at 12 or 13, which means I can only imagine what today's Internet-capable pubescents can get access to.) And porn is so different from reality that it can skew expectations.


§ ita § - Apr 26, 2005 11:29:48 am PDT #5857 of 10001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

And porn is so different from reality that it can skew expectations.

Maybe I just didn't consume enough porn, or I have an unrealistic sex life, but it was an easily correctable issue.

Movie love isn't like real life love either, is it? Not to mention apartment rentals and wardrobes.


Steph L. - Apr 26, 2005 11:32:14 am PDT #5858 of 10001
I look more rad than Lutheranism

And porn is so different from reality that it can skew expectations.

Maybe I just didn't consume enough porn, or I have an unrealistic sex life, but it was an easily correctable issue.

Same here. I don't blame diappointing sex on the expectations generated by porn; I blame it on not enough practice/too much booze/too much ego.


DavidS - Apr 26, 2005 11:32:46 am PDT #5859 of 10001
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Movie love isn't like real life love either, is it? Not to mention apartment rentals and wardrobes.

But movie fighting is exactly like real fighting, right?


DavidS - Apr 26, 2005 11:33:50 am PDT #5860 of 10001
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

too much ego.

Teppy's brain: "I'm good at softball and writing. This blowjob stuff will be easy..."


Ginger - Apr 26, 2005 11:34:20 am PDT #5861 of 10001
"It didn't taste good. It tasted soooo horrible. It tasted like....a vodka martini." - Matilda

It is just like Midol + codeine, as in it has 50mg of caffeine per tablet.

My lord. It's the world's most perfect drug.