OMG, i so want a marshmallow shooter. That would be so fun.
RIP Terri. May her family and friends find some peace as well. Although it seems unlikely, since her parents' spokesperson was just on my radio talking about being denied access to Terri as she died. Oy.
Poor family.
I'm waiting for the civil murder case.
Oh! I have to have a marshmallow shooter!!!!
Heh. I was wondering how long it would take you to find it.
I hope her family can take peace in that--no matter what facts of her condition while she was alive--she is fine now. I hope they can remember their beliefs that she is now better off than any of us.
I think I am going to have to buy a marshmallow shooter.
Rest in peace, indeed. She's earned her rest, her freedom.
I just read the article that CNN posted about 20 minutes ago, and it's just... bizarre. Pieces of the whole sorry history that I've been reading about for weeks are glossed over, treated as hearsay, or just obfuscated something awful.
Her husband "claimed" she had bulimia. Never mind that it was determined by the court after an extensive malpractice suit that she
definitely
had it, that her doctors
definitely
failed to diagnose it, and that their failure was what ultimately led to her catastrophic electrolyte imbalance and brain-starving arrhythmia -- nope, per CNN, this was just his claim.
She'd been examined by five doctors, two hired by her parents, two by her husband and one by the court, who were divided on whether she was aware and could recover. Nothing about the devastation shown on her CAT scan, the many neurologists and occupational therapists who worked with her over the years, the guardian ad litem hired by the court to be on neither her husband's nor her parents' side but just her own, all of whom came to the same heartbreaking conclusion.
Nothing about his years tending to her, flying her around the country to try alternative therapies, going to nursing school himself; nothing about her parents' very, very late accusations that he abused her; nothing about the two friends of the couple who've also testified in court that she had expressed her wishes to them. Just "he said/they said," as if there were no history at all to the case except mutual finger-pointing and a series of curiously abstract and factless court cases.
I hate to seem all naively astonished about the shittiness of the mainstream media, but I guess I am all naively astonished about the shittiness of the mainstream media. What the fuck?
I expect better of CNN. Or maybe the days of Bernie Shaw peering out his Baghdad hotel window and reporting on the missiles as they fall are over.
The disability rights movement people have acted as if nobody tried anything, JZ.
My friend at Mouth says she's heard TS speak.
I'm a bit puzzled by the alternative media too. It's like "Terri's Rashamon"