Who is more important to Wesley, Lilah or Cordelia?

To, or for?

Actually, I'm going to go with Lilah for both of those. But that could be my dislike of post-S2 Cordy talking.

Well, he stuck his neck out, both physically and metaphorically, for Cordelia a number of times. What did he ever do for Lilah?

What did he ever do for Lilah?

Cut off her head to save her from vampirism (he thought). Risk his life to try and save her from Hell. Admit he probably loved her, an adversary, to his friends.

Well, he stuck his neck out, both physically and metaphorically, for Cordelia a number of times. What did he ever do for Lilah?

Saved her from the Beast in W&H, cut off her head when he thought Angelus had eaten her, sexed her up but good, attempted to destroy her W&H contract.

Mostly, just loved her despite himself, which brought him back to a place where he could function and care again after the whole Connor sitch.

Connie! Slap my hand now!

It's the Lilah-lovin' x-post!

Cut off her head to save her from vampirism (he thought).

Easilly viewed as not being done for her.

Risk his life to try and save her from Hell.

Ummmm . . . . I don't think his life was REALLY in that much danger, and I don't think he thought so either.

Admit he probably loved her, an adversary, to his friends.

More for himself than her.

Saved her from the Beast in W&H,

He would have done the same for an intern.

sexed her up but good,

Not at all selfish.

Mostly, just loved her despite himself, which brought him back to a place where he could function and care again after the whole Connor sitch.

I can go with this, but, again, it was for himself, not for her.

Don't get me wrong, I love Lilah, and think she is one of the most interesting characters on the show, not to mention the brutal hotness of her. But he called out a 60 foot demon for Cordelia.

I think they were equally important in different ways, at different times. Cordelia, and Angel, gave Wesley a home and made him feel needed when he desperately needed both.

Lilah wanted him, when no one else did, even though she had dozens of reasons not to.

He would have done the same for an intern.

He'd have gone *into* W&H on purpose to save an intern? I don't think so. He went in specifically to save her ass.

More for himself than her.

How is admitting to the people you want, deep in your heart, and the woman you've been dreaming of for quite some time, that you love someone they regard as Satan's Right Hand, something done for yourself? I fear I don't see that at all.

I suppose one could say that he was trying to paint the best possible picture of events, but that doesn't mesh with how he spoke of it, first in rebuking Fred, and then to Gunn, when he was more than half-shocked at her showing up in Home.

Illyria's getup is better if you scroll down to this [link] pic.

He'd have gone *into* W&H on purpose to save an intern? I don't think so. He went in specifically to save her ass.

Been a while since I've seen that episode. I'd forgotten that he went in for her, thought he was in there and found her.

How is admitting to the people you want, deep in your heart, and the woman you've been dreaming of for quite some time, that you love someone they regard as Satan's Right Hand, something done for yourself? I fear I don't see that at all.

How is it for anybody else?