Coming to mind first are 'The Yoko Effect' and 'Primeval', where the results of not having friends and family close are explored. Spike's comments in 'School Hard' are relevant. Neither of those are directly about still being alive, though. I'll be thinking of more...
'Out Of Gas'
Buffy and Angel 1: BUFFYNANGLE4EVA!!!!!1!
Is it better the second time around? Or the third? Or tenth? This is the place to come when you have a burning desire to talk about an old episode that was just re-run.
The speech you're thinking of, Shir, is probably the one Seska mentions from School Hard (titling the last Bitches thread):
Spike: "A Slayer with family and friends. That sure as hell wasn't in the brochure."
It's a response to being brained by Joyce, so I think it directly connects to her being alive because of family.
The part I remember is "you've got family, [possibly more words here], friends, people who...". It's not Spike from School Hard.
But thank you, and keep 'em coming.
(Context to sociology-speakers: a part of what I'm doing is taking Durkheim's study on suicides, and linking it to superheros).
The part I remember is "you've got family, [possibly more words here], friends, people who...". It's not Spike from School Hard.
Probably from the alley scene in Fool for Love.
t edit "Every Slayer has a death wish. Even you. The only reason you've lasted as long as you have is you've got ties to the world. Your mum, brat kid sister, Scoobies. They all tie you here but you're just puttin' off the inevitable."
That, thank you, yes! (you have no idea how long I've been Googling and trying to remember where it's from. No idea).
I have a creepy memory that hangs on to EVERYTHING.
And I fear, love and respect you for that.
You could also talk about Xander's Yellow Crayon saving the world.
Context to sociology-speakers: a part of what I'm doing is taking Durkheim's study on suicides, and linking it to superheros
That is far too exciting. Details! Draft copies!
I'm still working on the Buffyverse connection, but what set me to do it, in the first place, was Durkheim's observation that moral ideas are (solely?) composed of certain amount of egoism, certain amount of altruism, and a dash of anomie. In that moment, all I could think of was "OMG! It's Captain Jack Harkness! And the Doctor!".
And since Durkheim shows that if any of these "ingredients" of the social order is too strong in an individual there will be a suicide of some sort, the easiest thing is to show how it works with superheros.
The other coolest thing in my plan is to use this as a demonstration to what simulacra is.