You know, it's funny. We went to war never looking to come back, but it's the real world I couldn't survive.

Tracy ,'The Message'


Buffy and Angel 1: BUFFYNANGLE4EVA!!!!!1!

Is it better the second time around? Or the third? Or tenth? This is the place to come when you have a burning desire to talk about an old episode that was just re-run.


Topic!Cindy - Aug 14, 2005 5:05:06 pm PDT #1880 of 10458
What is even happening?

If I'm not mistaken Laura went crazy and might have tried to kill Skye, though not askye which I keep trying to type
I think so. I stopped watching quite a few years ago, and before Skye came on. Laura might even be dead (again, oh! That's where she's like Buffy), or maybe they think she is, or maybe she's just in an institution.

I'd forgotten about Lucky finding out about the rape. I was watching, then. That was funny (odd) because they had already retconned it away as a seduction, and then they reretconned it, or unretconned it back to a rape.

Also, thanks to the heat and this discussion, the Spike in my head is now played by Tony Geary. I curse you all.

Oh, shoot. Heh. I'll ask what I asked in Minearverse, when we turned into a week of soaps. If you locked Tony Geary, James Marsters, and Maurice Bernard (Sonny/GH) on a locked set. Who'd chew the most scenery?

The end of Gone with the Wind, when Rhett hauls Scarlett's ass up that grand sweeping flight of stairs? She doesn't appear in any way to be consenting. IJS.

Not the end, more like near the endish of the middle. The end was her deciding that she wanted Rhett and him not giving a damn. But you're absolutely right about him raping her.

She doesn't consent, but she's happy about it the morning after, and so I am never comfortable considering it a rape, because Scarlett doesn't seem to.


Steph L. - Aug 14, 2005 5:12:40 pm PDT #1881 of 10458
I look more rad than Lutheranism

She doesn't consent, but she's happy about it the morning after, and so I am never comfortable considering it a rape, because Scarlett doesn't seem to.

That's really dicey, the way I look at it. It's not just that she doesn't consent; she struggles and protests. No matter how much I want to romanticize it (and until that point in the movie, I *adore* Rhett unreservedly), she's fighting him.

Honestly, the Spike/Buffy attempted rape scene could have been lifted straight out of GwtW, now that I think about it. Buffy just manages to stop him.

And that bit about Scarlett looking all glowy and well-plowed the next morning? I think that's all about the writers' intent -- when the movie was made, it was still a ludicrous notion that a husband could rape his wife -- to show that she really wanted it; she just didn't *know* she wanted it. Which, in 2005, is all kinds of dangerous territory, but was par for the course when GwtW was made.


Daisy Jane - Aug 14, 2005 5:12:57 pm PDT #1882 of 10458
"This bar smells like kerosene and stripper tears."

She doesn't consent, but she's happy about it the morning after, and so I am never comfortable considering it a rape, because Scarlett doesn't seem to.

I'm fine with calling it rape, in the same way I'm fine with calling the slavery in GWTW oppression, though the slaves don't seem to think so.

And it looks like I may have to forgive TB for liking salmon, for lo, he has proved himself once again as my one true imaginary internet boyfriend.


Daisy Jane - Aug 14, 2005 5:15:48 pm PDT #1883 of 10458
"This bar smells like kerosene and stripper tears."

Honestly, the Spike/Buffy attempted rape scene could have been lifted straight out of GwtW, now that I think about it. Buffy just manages to stop him.

Well, and that she wasn't all glowy and actually said she could never love him after the attempt, of course that was all before the New!With Soul!


P.M. Marc - Aug 14, 2005 5:21:05 pm PDT #1884 of 10458
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

If you locked Tony Geary, James Marsters, and Maurice Bernard (Sonny/GH) on a locked set. Who'd chew the most scenery?

Tony by a hair.


Topic!Cindy - Aug 14, 2005 5:24:06 pm PDT #1885 of 10458
What is even happening?

That's really dicey, the way I look at it. It's not just that she doesn't consent; she struggles and protests. No matter how much I want to romanticize it (and until that point in the movie, I *adore* Rhett unreservedly), she's fighting him.

Yes, and I understand that. In the book, you never see a thing in the bedroom, so it takes judgment to make a pronouncement, either way. They have their argument in the dining room. Then he sweeps her upstairs. It cuts 'til the next morning. We don't know what went on in the bedroom, so the only place to take our cue is from Scarlett's reaction.

I'm fine with calling it rape, in the same way I'm fine with calling the slavery in GWTW oppression, though the slaves don't seem to think so.
I'm having trouble with the analogy, because I think this is more akin to discerning if a given character was a slave. Of course slavery is oppression. Rape is assault. But since rape involves a person's consent, it also involves her perception of events. I don't think it's a huge overstep to call the scene in GWTW a rape, but it takes making a decision based on what happened in that bedroom, and all we know about what happened in the bedroom is that the next morning, Scarlett is happy about it.

Similarly, the "Happy Rape" is an old trope - Sabine Women, or a famous verse in Orlando Furioso for example. Don't think you could write Luke and Laura or GWTW today (GWTW for reasons besides the rape scene ending). Don't think we are poorer for that.

I agree. I don't think though, that every story has to be socially responsible. It's fiction. If Buffy weren't put forth as take-back-the-night girl, my expectations of how she would be presented would have been different, and on plot points like her reaction to Spike after the rape attempt, they would be lower. If you're telling random individual's story, and that random individual isn't being put forth as a hero, you could actually have her be happy she was forced into sex/raped. I probably wouldn't want to read it, but that's a different issue.


Topic!Cindy - Aug 14, 2005 5:25:22 pm PDT #1886 of 10458
What is even happening?

Tony by a hair.

I'm thinking Maurice. I think I'm the only one who is, though.


Daisy Jane - Aug 14, 2005 5:38:25 pm PDT #1887 of 10458
"This bar smells like kerosene and stripper tears."

I'm having trouble with the analogy, because I think this is more akin to discerning if a given character was a slave.

I guess what I'm saying is that with my modern viewer's eyes saying no and physically pushing someone off of me and them not stopping=rape, whether it is for Scarlet or not in the same way that owning someone as property=oppressive whether Mamie considered it to be or not.


Steph L. - Aug 14, 2005 5:49:16 pm PDT #1888 of 10458
I look more rad than Lutheranism

If you locked Tony Geary, James Marsters, and Maurice Bernard (Sonny/GH) on a locked set. Who'd chew the most scenery?

Tony by a hair.

Don't you mean "Tony by a BADLY PERMED hair"?

Similarly, the "Happy Rape" is an old trope - Sabine Women, or a famous verse in Orlando Furioso for example. Don't think you could write Luke and Laura or GWTW today (GWTW for reasons besides the rape scene ending). Don't think we are poorer for that.

I agree. I don't think though, that every story has to be socially responsible. It's fiction.

Oh, absolutely. I don't think the issue of "responsibility" comes into play with fiction until/unless the character who does something reprehensible is lionized *by the creator/writers*. I definitely don't think that happened with Spike. (Granted, segments of fandom said that poor widdle Spikey was just misunderstood and Buffy was such a bitca to him, but I'm definitely not talking about fans here. I don't think the *writers,* however, presented Spike's actions in a favorable light.)


Jessica - Aug 14, 2005 5:54:23 pm PDT #1889 of 10458
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

I don't think it's a huge overstep to call the scene in GWTW a rape, but it takes making a decision based on what happened in that bedroom, and all we know about what happened in the bedroom is that the next morning, Scarlett is happy about it.

She starts out by saying (thinking) that he'd "humbled her, hurt her, used her brutally." It's explicitly violent, and explicitly without her consent. The fact that she also thinks it was TEH HAWT just makes it a disturbing rape fantasy.

(And honestly, I don't think it's supposed to reflect well on Scarlett that she reacts that way. Scarlett's the hero, but she's also a shallow bitch with no people skills. Rhett's the self-aware bad-boy who's the only person bad enough and deep enough to really understand her and love her for who she is. And wow, they really are the Antebellum Crazyfen Spuffy, aren't they?)