or why fandom did

It didn't really. I mean, I did, but not for the reasons they seemed to want me to like her.

I've been continuing my obsessive dvd episode watching. Today it was What's my line, parts 1 and 2. Until the flesh eaating demon showed up in Season 7 (the Gnarl?), I think the Worm guy from the Order of Taraka was the grossest demon.

I've also learned that originally, it was the Three who were from the Order of Aurelius, not the Master.

Cindy, we're soulmates! Or something like that. I watch Days rather randomly. But I saw one a while back where Bo told Marlena to mind her own business, and it was awesome.

I get the identifying-with-Willow thing as a concept, but that's why she grated on me. She didn't seem like a geek; she seemed like a geeky teenage boy's fantasy. I was certainly a giant geek in high school, and so were my friends, and I think even we'd have made fun of Willow for being so cloying.

And I will never stop insisting that post-Pylea Fred should have been like Leela from Dr. Who. That would have been fun.

I'm in the identified-with-Willow crowd, and think there may be some amount of retconning going on. I don't think she really reached the cutesy let-me-make-up-for-my-thoughtless-and-deadly-blunders-with-cookies stage until Season 4, when she was admittedly milking the fan favorite thing for all she was worth and escaping the consequences of her actions.

Earlier there was a lot more legitimate sadness and sense of responsibility to Willow, but I think Joss suffers from this blind spot where once he thinks a character is great, EVERYONE MUST LOVE THEM. I've seen that happen with Willow, Spike, Fred, and River, and in my opinion only Willow has been redeemed to date—by the events of Season 6. The story arc showed real, devastating consequences to the character getting her way all the time and had everyone stop excusing her self-indulgent behavior after it became too disruptive.

And then she came back blinvisible, and all was forgiven, because she has a cute tummy.

*cough* Sorry. It's odd when you and I aren't in near-complete agreement, Matt.

Hey, you won't hear me defending Season 7. As far as I'm concerned, it only had three episodes: "Selfless," "Conversations with Dead People," and "Chosen." Oh, and a few minute-long 4-way split screen video titled "Him."

I was probably easier on season 7 than you and a lot of Buffistas were. I do think the potentials flooded the ground where the main story should have (to my mind) taken place. That said, in addition to the episodes you've cited, I thought Lessons was a strong beginning. I love the hand-waving Giles did, to get rid of the magical crack part of Willow's storyline of season 6. It was a cheat, but a fulfilling one. And really, who can help but love an episode in which Giles asks, "Do you want to be punished?" I only take points off, because it made promises I felt the season didn't keep.

The last time I watched Lessons (I've barely touched my S7 DVDs) I thought about the Coven in Bath, where Willow went for healing, and the old I'm-now-the-only-one woman who appears out of the blue, in End of Days (she'd been among those who forged the scythe). If the coven had somehow tied into the scythe-making-hiding clan, we could have had some much needed continuity. I think season 7 suffered because the potentials took over time that should have gone to the core characters, and because continuity apparently only had a contract through season 4.

I loved Beneath You, even (especially) the scene with Spike on the cross. And despite what I've been saying about Willow re-entering the fold, I was so touched by the ending of Same Time, Same Place, with Buffy and Willow, and sufficiently creeped out by the Gnarl monster, that I actually really enjoyed it.

I still miss my show. I'm glad it ended, because it was going down hill, and I hated to see it. But I still miss it.

I have the warmest feelings for Same Time, Same Place of any episode in the entire series. The density of continuity and character parallels in the Willow/Anya spell scene, crazy Spike's every line carrying meaning, funny Dawn paralysis, the creepy flesh eating and scary fairy tale taunting, the real friendship and bonding at the end, and the perfectly metaphorical monster -- I believe it was Jim E-T who said it first, but while Hush and Once More With Feeling are great stunts, this is the best episode that's just Buffy through and through.

Crazy!Spike being revealed to be having two different conversations at the same time was a good touch. Plus there's "I'm crazy, what's his excuse?"

I've been dark due to vacation with no computer two places and dial-up in the third, and just found this:

Any idea where I could get ahold of this marvel of marvels? [unaired BtVS pilot, etc]

I hate to beg, but please, please, please, could I borrow this?! There could be bribery involved.