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Jesse - Mar 14, 2005 5:04:44 am PST #6923 of 10002
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Man, there's no way I be could be a full-time parent, much less homeschool a kid. I was just saying this yesterday -- there's no way a kid isn't getting more from being with both other kids and trained adults, instead of with just me. I admire the hell out of people who can do it, but I know I'd lose my shit after three days.


Gudanov - Mar 14, 2005 5:05:14 am PST #6924 of 10002
Coding and Sleeping

There is a big local homeschooling association that we'd be using as well. So there are regular meetings with lots of other kids. But yeah, I'm also kinda concerned with missing some of the good and bad that comes from the regular school.


Topic!Cindy - Mar 14, 2005 5:05:18 am PST #6925 of 10002
What is even happening?

ita, I agree with your points, as well. I think next year is going to be hard for Chris, but I think he needs that, the way a soldier needs boot camp. It will be difficult, but good--like a refining fire? Meep.

Okay, really gone. Thanks for letting me spill, Buffistas.


Jesse - Mar 14, 2005 5:05:54 am PST #6926 of 10002
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

But yeah, I'm also kinda concerned with missing some of the good and bad that comes from the regular school.

And she's missing the good and bad that comes from an office (or whatever) job, too.


Vortex - Mar 14, 2005 5:07:33 am PST #6927 of 10002
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman

Victoria's Secret no longer carries my size, but I can get it online, says them. I said fuck that and got myself a Bali. In pink.

I feel your pain. I discovered that the stores no longer carry the type of bra I like in the stores. fuckers. I think that if they don't carry it in the store, you should get free shipping.


§ ita § - Mar 14, 2005 5:08:08 am PST #6928 of 10002
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

I'm ashamed to admit he's much better off at the school than he would be with me.

Why are you ashamed? You do mothery things better for him than a Kristin or Kat would, but they've worked long and hard to be able to do teachery things.

If I wanted to homeschool a putative child, it wouldn't be because I thought I'd be a better teacher mano a mano than many of the well-trained people out there. It would be because I was suspicious of a school system, or wanted the kid to get one on one attention.

However, I was very startled when I went from Montessori to regular school, and then from my small class-size high school to university classes that were almost as big as my entire high school.

So one on one ain't all that -- it sets up faulty expectations.


§ ita § - Mar 14, 2005 5:08:53 am PST #6929 of 10002
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

I discovered that the stores no longer carry the type of bra I like in the stores.

The satin ones? Yeah -- this prompted me to go to Nordstrom's and get measured, and now I'm cheerily Wacoal's bitch.


Vortex - Mar 14, 2005 5:10:15 am PST #6930 of 10002
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman

The satin ones?

yup. I mean, I order from the catalog as a general rule, because I'm a lazy cow, but I should have the OPTION of buying one in a store in an emergency. I found another bra at Nordy's that I love, but it was $60 on sale, so I won't be buying whole bunch of those.


Jesse - Mar 14, 2005 5:11:58 am PST #6931 of 10002
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

So one on one ain't all that -- it sets up faulty expectations.

Actually, that's kind of funny -- you really could have spent your whole life in small-group situations. I mean, it's not that there aren't colleges like that, and as a grown-up, it's not that hard to keep your life small-scale, if you see what I'm saying.


Cashmere - Mar 14, 2005 5:12:05 am PST #6932 of 10002
Now tagless for your comfort.

Lots of calm-ma for Cindy and screening-ma for Christopher.

DH and I have discussed home schooling, too. But we bought our house based on the school district. It's one of the best performing in the state, so I'm not overly concerned with the quality. I'm a product of public education myself.

I also think I might be too scattered and unorganized enough to make home schooling disasterous if not crazy-making for me and my kids.