A year and a half ago, I could have eviscerated him with my thoughts. Now I can barely hurt his feelings. Things used to be so much simpler.

Anya ,'Dirty Girls'


Spike's Bitches 22: You've got Angel breath  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


erikaj - Feb 14, 2005 10:14:59 am PST #975 of 10001
I'm a fucking amazing catch!--Fiona Gallagher, Shameless(US)

Stupid brain! That's because you live in the City of The Broken Hearted. Duh! It's all hopeless, anyway. (/Everything I know I learned From Homicide)


Maria - Feb 14, 2005 10:17:16 am PST #976 of 10001
Not so nice is that I'm about to ruin a Friday morning for a bunch of people because of a series of unfortunate events and an upset foreign government. - shrift

Also, was DX pulling my leg in Natter or did the seach function-y things under the posting box just show up today? I am tired and busy and somewhat harried and am not able to parse jokiness in posts.

Sorry 'bout the tired and busy.

Yes, he was. It just showed up today.


DavidS - Feb 14, 2005 10:17:26 am PST #977 of 10001
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Also, was DX pulling my leg in Natter or did the seach function-y things under the posting box just show up today?

No joke. ita announced it earlier.


Nora Deirdre - Feb 14, 2005 10:21:46 am PST #978 of 10001
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

OK, Hec, you and Maria need to get your stories straight...

Tired= just regular Monday tired, and busy= work is kind of slammed, but right now, in an OK way.


brenda m - Feb 14, 2005 10:22:29 am PST #979 of 10001
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

It's wedding invitations where I really get the why-am-I-alone bs going on. Valentine's, whatev. But then I'm not specificaly told to bring a boyfriend to Valentine's, or seated at a table with an empty chair or a bunch of other random singles, or being all third-wheely at a Valentine's reception filled with couples, many of seem to be there specifically to scope out who you brought with you.

Given my innate contrariness, I strongly suspect that Valentine's will be far more irksome to me when I am in a commited relationship than it is now when I'm not.


vw bug - Feb 14, 2005 10:23:51 am PST #980 of 10001
Mostly lurking...

vw, I thought you might find this link on Appalachian dialect interesting:

Thanks, Susan!

I am home. Paper still not magically written. I think I'm gonna have to work on those powers a bit.


Connie Neil - Feb 14, 2005 10:26:03 am PST #981 of 10001
brillig

The best response to have when asked why you didn't bring a date to a wedding or something is, "Oh, he's just for fun, he's not worthy of the event."

I didn't seriously hook up with anybody till I was 24, and my contentment with that state terrified the 19-year-olds around me who lived in dread of turning 20 without a guy.


lisah - Feb 14, 2005 10:28:09 am PST #982 of 10001
Punishingly Intricate

That's because you live in the City of The Broken Hearted. Duh! It's all hopeless, anyway.

Hah! That makes me both laugh AND cry!

It's not your stupid brain.

I blame my brain because I KNOW about the evil Hallmark dudes and what they're up to but I still get sad about being ALONE FOREVER!


lisah - Feb 14, 2005 10:31:56 am PST #983 of 10001
Punishingly Intricate

VW I love that you are setting a specific goal and rewarding yourself with an IPOD if you reach it! I'm rooting hard for you!!! And also trying to figure out what hard but attainable goal I can set for myself that would warrant me getting an IPOD as a reward. hmmmm....maybe successfully creating a budget and following it for a couple of months. Very hard for me.


brenda m - Feb 14, 2005 10:32:18 am PST #984 of 10001
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

The best response to have when asked why you didn't bring a date to a wedding or something is, "Oh, he's just for fun, he's not worthy of the event."

Yeah, I'm pretty much over giving a shit or feeling awkward about it now, but in my early 20s it was pretty painful.