S-i-l, the one who just had breast cancer a couple of years ago, just had her hysterectomy. The took some lymph nodes, too. The tumors on her ovary are ovarian cancer (not all cancer on ovaries is). I don't know anything else. Her husband was crying too hard to say too much to m-i-l. M-i-l too stoic to say too much to me.
Funny thing about black and white. You mix it together and you get gray. And it doesn't matter how much white you try and put back in, you're never gonna get anything but gray.
Lilah ,'Destiny'
Spike's Bitches 22: You've got Angel breath
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
Topic!Cindy - Mar 15, 2005 10:33:47 am PST #6647 of 10001
What is even happening?
lisah - Mar 15, 2005 10:36:34 am PST #6648 of 10001
Punishingly Intricate
strength to your family Cindy...
Ginger - Mar 15, 2005 10:38:48 am PST #6649 of 10001
"It didn't taste good. It tasted soooo horrible. It tasted like....a vodka martini." - Matilda
Oh, Cindy. Strength and health to the family. Did they say whether it had spread to the lymph nodes?
brenda m - Mar 15, 2005 10:40:07 am PST #6650 of 10001
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there
Oh, Cindy.
Gudanov - Mar 15, 2005 10:40:43 am PST #6651 of 10001
Coding and Sleeping
(((Cindy)))
Cass - Mar 15, 2005 10:42:56 am PST #6652 of 10001
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.
(((Cindy and family)))
-t - Mar 15, 2005 10:47:21 am PST #6653 of 10001
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration
{{{Cindy and family}}}
sumi - Mar 15, 2005 10:48:08 am PST #6654 of 10001
Art Crawl!!!
{{{Cindy and family}}}
Topic!Cindy - Mar 15, 2005 10:52:47 am PST #6655 of 10001
What is even happening?
Ginger, she didn't say. My impression was that it would have to be biopsied, but I didn't want to ask m-i-l too many questions. I don't know how they know the cancer is ovarian already. When b-i-l called m-i-l, my s-i-l wasn't even back in her hospital room, yet. It was right after the surgery.
Topic!Cindy - Mar 15, 2005 10:57:40 am PST #6656 of 10001
What is even happening?
Thanks, everyone. I'm sorry I didn't say so before. I appreciate it. I'm just distracted. I'm trying to get ahold of another s-i-l, and I haven't said anything to the kids, because it doesn't seem right to tell them, without dh, or before he even knows, because it's his sister. I am not going to tell him while he's at work, unless he specifically asks me. In fact, I think I will wait until after he eats supper, unless he specifically asks me. I have to go out tonight too. Shoot. I forgot all about that. Meanwhile, Ben's been talking to me about baseball cards for the past hour, almost straight.