Jeez, don't get all Movie of the Week. I was just too cheap to buy you a real present.

Dawn ,'The Killer In Me'


Spike's Bitches 22: You've got Angel breath  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Steph L. - Mar 14, 2005 9:42:07 am PST #6471 of 10001
I look more rad than Lutheranism

JZ! Are you familiar with the Look at Me website, with all the found photos? There's one on there that reminds me so much of you, though the nose is completely wrong. But in terms of overall demeanor and general appearance: [link]


JZ - Mar 14, 2005 9:42:51 am PST #6472 of 10001
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.

OMG, Tep, that's spooky.

eta: Also, we did indeed cart your stuff down to Lee's and then back up to San Francisco, because we are big loserheads. You will get the package eventually, I swear! You know, someday. Before 2008.


Steph L. - Mar 14, 2005 9:46:23 am PST #6473 of 10001
I look more rad than Lutheranism

Also, we did indeed cart your stuff down to Lee's and then back up to San Francisco, because we are big loserheads.

You great big dorks! You'd think Hec had been preoccupied with being violently ill all weekend, or something silly like that....

No big -- it just made me laugh.


Connie Neil - Mar 14, 2005 9:51:21 am PST #6474 of 10001
brillig

It's kind of sad, looking at Look at Me, to think of all the digital photos that aren't going to be preserved.


Stephanie - Mar 14, 2005 10:12:36 am PST #6475 of 10001
Trust my rage

We took the classes, and I prepared for a natural delivery, but made an agreement with myself that I could change my mind.

This is my thinking. One of the reasons I picked the doula is did was because she was completely okay with encouraging me to go for a natural birth and then taking the epi or whatever if I felt I needed it.

Joe seems pretty freaked out about the whole birth process. I sent him a book thinking the information would make him feel more in control (that's what would work for me) but I think it had the opposite effect. So, I've told him all he needs to do is stand by my head and be supportive.

It's funny how it worked out - if he was here, I would have high expectations for him to be my "birth coach." It seems that his deployment has worked to his benefit, in this one area, because now I get the support I want and he can play the role he wants.


Burrell - Mar 14, 2005 10:16:31 am PST #6476 of 10001
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

Joe may surprise you, Stephanie. DH was worried about how well he could handle seeing me in pain, but he was terrific through the whole thing, really hands on.


Connie Neil - Mar 14, 2005 10:20:45 am PST #6477 of 10001
brillig

SAN FRANCISCO - A judge ruled Monday that California can no longer justify limiting marriage to a man and a woman, a legal milestone that if upheld on appeal would pave the way for the nation's most populous state to follow Massachusetts in allowing same-sex couples to wed.

In an opinion that had been awaited because of San Francisco's historical role as a gay rights battleground, San Francisco County Superior Court Judge Richard Kramer said that withholding marriage licenses from gays and lesbians is unconstitutional.

[link]


Stephanie - Mar 14, 2005 10:21:12 am PST #6478 of 10001
Trust my rage

Joe may surprise you, Stephanie.

I really hope so. I must say that I have been a little bit hurt by his reaction. After all, I'm the one actually doing the work.

Having said that, my husband is the only man I have known who almost always give me what I need, including emotionally. I suspect he will rise to the occasion. Also, he's so tired and overworked at the moment that I just sort of accept that our communication is not 100% right now.


JZ - Mar 14, 2005 10:22:27 am PST #6479 of 10001
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.

reads connie's link

bounces and squees

Go team Superior Court Judge Kramer! Fuck yeah!


Cass - Mar 14, 2005 10:30:41 am PST #6480 of 10001
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

I have krav jealousy.

And Miracleborn envy (oh! I'll be there weekend after next though.) and JZ envy. I am shocked that Hec calmed Ollie. It's unpossible.

I just spent nearly four hours on car repairish things. Total outlay of cash $0. Thank fuck for AAA, free flat repair at the place I bought my tires, some dealie where you pay once and they do alignments for several years when you need them (Yes, there is a word for this. But I have lost my words it seems. At least that one.) and finally (best of all since it wasn't their fault at *all* it turns out) an auto body place that got my rear window to finally roll up that final bit and seal again.

High heels are off and ice is on the sprained toe and sore front part of my foot. Swearing has been brought into play again. Cats might not speak but I suspect they've figured out what, "Bugger!" means.

The power of naaaaaaaaap is calling. I am trying to resist its siren lure.

Burrell, I am still amused by your tag everytime I see it. How are Frannie and baby bro beanie (I am making up a new nickname that I suspect will only be making this one appearence) doing?

Go team Superior Court Judge Kramer! Fuck yeah!
What JZ said.