I got stabbed, you know, right here.

Mal ,'Shindig'


Spike's Bitches 22: You've got Angel breath  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Gudanov - Feb 11, 2005 5:24:58 am PST #518 of 10001
Coding and Sleeping

Maybe I should call my decade (okay 11 years) old blue Honda Civic Amy.


Lilty Cash - Feb 11, 2005 5:26:21 am PST #519 of 10001
"You see? THAT's what they want. Love, and a bit with a dog."

Son of a Bitch! Our rent pays for snow removal, and my roomate and I have been sitting right here in the living room all morning. The plow guy is supposed to honk when he gets here so we can run out and move our cars for him. I don't think he likes to wait the approximate two minutes it takes us to get on boots and get outside, so he just doesn't honk, and completely plows us in. Rat Bastard!!

ETA:

We actually discussed this after the dinner out night for the Beantown leg of Nilly Tour 2004.

That's right, we did figure out the car thing then, didn't we?


JohnSweden - Feb 11, 2005 5:28:15 am PST #520 of 10001
I can't even.

Gronklies all!

Just in the awfice for half a day today, as I have the afternoon off to run around and do paperwork errands. Thrill! We're having a farewell lunch for one of my colleagues and I may have to miss it.

I just had to explain the math behind lotteries to a co-worker. Why me? I'm an English major.


-t - Feb 11, 2005 5:28:21 am PST #521 of 10001
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Bummer, Lilty. Not taht I really know your pain, as I have never lived in a place that had these "snow" and "plows" you speak of, but it certainly sounds bad.

My blue Toyota Corolla is totally not an Amy.


Topic!Cindy - Feb 11, 2005 5:29:39 am PST #522 of 10001
What is even happening?

awfice
Love this.


Lilty Cash - Feb 11, 2005 5:33:53 am PST #523 of 10001
"You see? THAT's what they want. Love, and a bit with a dog."

I think that the plowdude is actually the brother of the bitch upstairs. I bet she gets a break on her rent AND a nice phone call before he gets here. She always acts like a saint because she shovels the sidewalk out front. Which, OK, but she's the only one who uses it, and if she waited for a few hours, the town would do it anyway.

I'm usually the quiet and meek tenant. I think I have repressed neighbor anger that the snow is bringing out.


Connie Neil - Feb 11, 2005 5:40:42 am PST #524 of 10001
brillig

The book I mentioned yesterday, Same Sex Unions in PreModern Europe, is a fascinating read. The first chapter, "The Vocabulary of Love and Marriage," is a little frustrating, though. He's trying to explain the differences in meaning between Greek terms and modern terms, and some sort of familiarity with non-English things is pretty necessary. He's not transliterating the Greek because the transliterations have assumptions tied to them, so the text has things in the Greek alphabet scattered through.

The discussion of the words "brother" and "brotherhood" is fascinating. In older times, your brother (male with same parents) frequently shared the same household with you because wealth belonged more to the families than to individuals. "Brother" therefore held connotations of interdependency that modern times don't share. My husband is reluctant to even call his sibling "brother" because there is such a lack of mutual support and respect between them. (Yes, the author mentions the lack of a female-specific term for these sorts of relationships, but, as he says, he's not going to create terms that don't exist. He mentions a feminist colleague of his who published an accusation that he had deliberately not produced documentation of female-female relationships--although he stated clearly that he found no such documentation. He says in a footnote that he'll refrain from naming either the collegue or the journal in which she published her accusation.)

There are apparently several examples of rituals in Greek and Latin that refer to two men "becoming brothers" to each other (I haven't gotten that far yet to find out the details). Before the High Middle Ages, it was typical to use words like "brother" and "sister" to stand for husbands and wives, to indicate the mutual respect and support aspects of the relationship. Being in a marriage also assumed a degree of physical attraction, and I think the book is going to explore the logical connection between a "brother-brother" relationship and the assumption of a physical relationship.

Damned fascinating. And I'd put good money down that this book is going to disappear from the shelves of the local library as soon as it comes to the notice of Certain People.


Lilty Cash - Feb 11, 2005 5:49:45 am PST #525 of 10001
"You see? THAT's what they want. Love, and a bit with a dog."

Bean boots laced. Furry hood on. Let the shovelling commence.


beth b - Feb 11, 2005 6:46:04 am PST #526 of 10001
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

I just checked - that same book is at my library - so I just put in a request for it


Scrappy - Feb 11, 2005 6:47:26 am PST #527 of 10001
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.

Diet Dr. Pepper and Hershey's Kisses are a perfectly good breakfast, right? RIGHT?!?