What should I do, then? Send her a gift? Sacrifice? … Unholy fruit basket?

Angel ,'Just Rewards (2)'


Spike's Bitches 22: You've got Angel breath  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


§ ita § - Feb 15, 2005 8:21:26 am PST #1174 of 10001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

Yeah but that's because you know you can hit back.

Sometimes. The training is supposed to mitigate the sheer shock involved in getting hit -- and making sure your responses are appropriate, not merely dictated by adrenaline.

Sounds perfectly appropriate for getting blindsided by a toddler.


-t - Feb 15, 2005 8:31:00 am PST #1175 of 10001
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Oh, not at all. I figured the sympathies went without saying.

Let me make my sympathy explicit. I had to go look up Bell's palsy first. Scary! I hope she recovers fully.


-t - Feb 15, 2005 8:32:12 am PST #1176 of 10001
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Hm. Another reason to start taking krav soonish.


Sean K - Feb 15, 2005 8:33:48 am PST #1177 of 10001
You can't leave me to my own devices; my devices are Nap and Eat. -Zenkitty

Let me make my sympathy explicit.

Thanks, -t. Sis says she's fine, and that her doctor is very good, and confident she'll make a full recovery.


-t - Feb 15, 2005 8:45:04 am PST #1178 of 10001
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Good to hear, Sean.


Topic!Cindy - Feb 15, 2005 8:46:28 am PST #1179 of 10001
What is even happening?

Sounds perfectly appropriate for getting blindsided by a toddler.

Yes, it is. But I think there should be a basic training for parenthood, anyhow. I make a damned poor libertarian, and libertine, for that matter.

If I were king of the forest, almost everyone would be in a big time-out, right now.


Susan W. - Feb 15, 2005 8:50:38 am PST #1180 of 10001
Good Trouble and Righteous Fights

Can I interrupt for a moment to ask for a woo and a hoo?

Because I just put a check in the mail with payment in full on what's left of my student loan.

We paid off the car in November or December.
We paid off the hospital bills from Annabel's birth last month.
And now my fancy-schmancey overpriced education is finally paid for.

As of this moment, the only debts we have are....the bad credit card kind. And more of those than I'd like, though we're not anywhere near a scary place with them. But now we'll be able to pay more than the minimum on them, and we'll be a lot more comfortable on just the one regular salary. Which is not to say I don't want to build my freelance income a lot more, but still. I don't feel like the wolves are howling at our door anymore.


-t - Feb 15, 2005 8:54:52 am PST #1181 of 10001
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

That's great, Susan! Woo-hoo!

Anybody got spare rent vs own advice lying around?


brenda m - Feb 15, 2005 8:56:14 am PST #1182 of 10001
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Dude, Susan. I can only dream of being where you are. CC's aren't a problem for me anymore - I went after those first - but I'll be paying those student loans off forever.


bicyclops - Feb 15, 2005 8:56:14 am PST #1183 of 10001

Susan: Woo