Sumi, I personally think that Sandy just didn't want to tell Kirsten about Rebecca and have that conversation with her. While I suppose Kirsten could have been considered an accessory, I think that's mostly just Sandy's justification for a decision he made for emotional reasons.

If that makes sense.

I am all about taking no "credit".

Word.

Ooh! I just remembered! I can watch The Amazing Race, finally! Rock.

sumi, I think that Sandy was using that as an excuse (and a crappy one at that) to not tell her because he just didn't want to deal. I don't kno wif he is all conflicty about her or not, though it seems that way. But he obviously dind't want to tell her for some reason beyond co-conspirator. eta clearly an xpost.

Okay, hello, rain. Go away.

Still unclear about what I should do regarding tomorrow. My gut says no. Don't do it mainly becuase I will spend the next 3 weekends doing work and it would be nice not to have some place to be for just 1 weekend., that its worth more than my consultancy rate. I need to decide in the next 30 minutes.

God. For some reason I thought he died a long time ago....

No, and he was still writing. I saw one of his new plays The Goat just a few years ago.

Heh. All the whitefont says the same thing, just in slightly different words.

Rhodesian Ridgebacks in unusual colors.

Another RR of unusual color.

I know. Mega OC crosspost.

See, I was thinking that actually it might be better if Sandy had told her rather than finding out on her own -- legally -- not just emotionally. Isn't there some sort of protection on conversations between spouses ?

I love the usual wheaten color of a ridgeback, but the black wheaten is lovely.

Kuma attacked Bear again two days ago. I'm so tired of this behavior and I don't know what to do. His meds have gotten his thyroid normal now. I'm just at a loss.

I wish I could find someone to foster him for a year or two. Or just to take him.

WRT your idea, sumi, I don't know, but we did discuss that exact idea here a few weeks ago, didn't we?