Oh.
Fuck.
Yes, my day is going great.
Sorry, Nilly, I had no idea.
"LameKev"
Dawn ,'The Killer In Me'
Discussion of the Mutant Enemy series, Firefly, the ensuing movie Serenity, and other projects in that universe. Like the other show threads, anything broadcast in the US is fine; spoilers are verboten and will be deleted if found.
Oh.
Fuck.
Yes, my day is going great.
Sorry, Nilly, I had no idea.
"LameKev"
For the record, not that I can imagine myself whedonesqued, but "ita" is grounds for brains smashing -- not mine own, and not with a bat.
I un "Nilly"'ed Nilly, because I'm great, and can't write grammatically correct sentences.
Kevin, just putting it out there...
The name someone chooses for themself online is for all intents and purposes, you know, THEIR NAME. So it's not about you and your issues at all. Yeah?
My grammar makes me laugh.
Allyson, I agree to some extent, but my posts are my posts, so I reserve the right to style them as I like.
The name someone chooses for themself online is for all intents and purposes, you know, THEIR NAME.
This. Having been online for a very long time, I can assure you that my long-lasting online names are ones that I occasionally use when thinking of myself in third person, and answer to in real life.
Also, if I were to use my actual factual first name as a login anywhere (which I don't, on account of it being too uncommon), it's just the sort of name that people would assume wasn't a name, and might encase in scare quotes, causing me to go all ragetastic about it.
My various writing and posting names are a part of my identity, some more closely rooted in my everyday life than others, but they're all me.
I didn't think it was particularly scary/craxy so much as unbearably pretentious hyperbole.
I can see the pretentiousness, but really, most people who aren't hardcore fans aren't going to look at all the little things, and "Serenity/Curling/Underwater Basket Weaving is teh best thing EVAH!" seems to be a pretty common among fandoms, IME. Not saying it's a great post, just doesn't seem out of the ordinary to me.
As for online nicknames, I don't have an issue with them. While I'd prefer to be called by my real name in facespace, it doesn't bother me when people who've met me online call me Kalshane. It's just another name, much like my family calls me "Robert", my friends call me "Rob" and one of my best friends calls me "Bob" despite nearly two decades of protest. Beyond that, I have a very common first and last name. A vanity Google nets me hundreds of results, none of them me. Google my nick and you get nothing but me (okay mostly me. There's apparently a man from CA using that nick as well. Weird.) I'm Kalshane wherever I go on-line, (now, anyway. I did a couple different ones when I first hit the net) so it's as much a part of who I am as any version of my "real" name.
my posts are my posts, so I reserve the right to style them as I like
I'm an extreme case, but my name is my name, and it makes me all reservey too.
Heh. A vanity Google of firstname-legal lastname gets me online petitions from 1994 and some old, old, old BBS listings.
Oh, and like, two Usenet/mailing list posts from the same time period.