I didn't think it was particularly scary/craxy so much as unbearably pretentious hyperbole.
I can see the pretentiousness, but really, most people who aren't hardcore fans aren't going to look at all the little things, and "Serenity/Curling/Underwater Basket Weaving is teh best thing EVAH!" seems to be a pretty common among fandoms, IME. Not saying it's a great post, just doesn't seem out of the ordinary to me.
As for online nicknames, I don't have an issue with them. While I'd prefer to be called by my real name in facespace, it doesn't bother me when people who've met me online call me Kalshane. It's just another name, much like my family calls me "Robert", my friends call me "Rob" and one of my best friends calls me "Bob" despite nearly two decades of protest. Beyond that, I have a very common first and last name. A vanity Google nets me hundreds of results, none of them me. Google my nick and you get nothing but me (okay mostly me. There's apparently a man from CA using that nick as well. Weird.) I'm Kalshane wherever I go on-line, (now, anyway. I did a couple different ones when I first hit the net) so it's as much a part of who I am as any version of my "real" name.
my posts are my posts, so I reserve the right to style them as I like
I'm an extreme case, but my name is my name, and it makes me all reservey too.
Heh. A vanity Google of firstname-legal lastname gets me online petitions from 1994 and some old, old, old BBS listings.
Oh, and like, two Usenet/mailing list posts from the same time period.
Oh, don't get me wrong, I'm not bothered by online nicknames being used online - that's the point of them, after all. Just in real life it seems, I don't know, a tad bizarre to me.
So I should stop calling shrift "shrift"?
Oh, don't get me wrong, I'm not bothered by online nicknames being used online - that's the point of them, after all. Just in real life it seems, I don't know, a tad bizarre to me
My online nicks have tended to be easier for people to spell and say than my real name.
And, occasionally, they've more closely resembled an actual name.
Just in real life it seems, I don't know, a tad bizarre to me
Whedonesque's not real life. Well, not realer than here, anyway.
We'll end up on fandom wank at this rate over quote marks.
ETA: Yeah, but I consider Whedonesque a little more visible. Hence, more formal. Or something.
We'll end up on fandom wank at this rate over quote marks.
Nah.
At least, I don't think so. F_W's been slow on the uptake lately, and even at our worst, we're too civil to really mockity mock mock.
Plus, I'm sure Harry Potter fandom is having a meltdown RIGHT NOW, seeing as they have them on a daily basis.
My position on it is to replicate what they call themselves (down to capitalisation) while within the same medium, and ask about changing to something else when switching. Except in meara's case, where I just don't want to call her by her real name. shrift too.