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Susan W. - Jan 21, 2005 7:57:19 pm PST #6416 of 10002
Good Trouble and Righteous Fights

they'd change them on a changing pad on the floor, so they didn't have to worry about falling.

Yeah, but then if she got loose, there would be shit on the floor, and not contained to the easily washable changing table.

I managed to change the diaper, but not to re-dress her. Fortunately it's warm in here, so I don't feel guilty about leaving her in a onesie and a diaper. I do, however, feel guilty for yelling at her, which I did. It's not like a 10-month old baby is old enough to consciously choose to be bad. She's just following her instincts to explore and move. But I wish I could just get her to understand there's a time and a place when she has to BE STILL.


Strix - Jan 21, 2005 7:58:39 pm PST #6417 of 10002
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger

Susan, do you have a yoga mat? You could use it on the floor, for those extra-wiggly floor sessions.


Deena - Jan 21, 2005 7:58:41 pm PST #6418 of 10002
How are you me? You need to stop that. Only I can be me. ~Kara

Oh, yes, Yay Erin! It sounds like fun.

Also yay for Jilli's friend, but continuing the ~ma so the news keeps getting better.


Strix - Jan 21, 2005 8:01:27 pm PST #6419 of 10002
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger

It was fun! It's a play called "Permanent Collection" and being weekend house manager is great -- I can totally read or work on teacher stuff while the play is going. And opening night is catered -- this time was by Island Catering which is two lovely Jamaican ladies, and I am currently inhaling leftover superspicy jerk chicken and grouper.

Yum.


Deena - Jan 21, 2005 8:01:41 pm PST #6420 of 10002
How are you me? You need to stop that. Only I can be me. ~Kara

Yeah, but then if she got loose, there would be shit on the floor, and not contained to the easily washable changing table.

Resolve spot remover is your friend.

eta: Erin, what does a house manager do? I'd do it for Jamaican food.


Susan W. - Jan 21, 2005 8:02:10 pm PST #6421 of 10002
Good Trouble and Righteous Fights

This was a lot easier before she got mobile. How long until this gets better again?


Deena - Jan 21, 2005 8:02:36 pm PST #6422 of 10002
How are you me? You need to stop that. Only I can be me. ~Kara

Um.... so far... I'll let you know.


Burrell - Jan 21, 2005 8:08:57 pm PST #6423 of 10002
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

What the hell are you supposed to do when they turn over and try to stand up/crawl away on the changing table?

Not sure I count as an experienced parent, but I have dealt with this one. My usual choices were: 1) hold her down on the table and waited for her to stop, then change her; 2) give her a toy and/or set up a mobile, mirror, etc to distract her; 3) put a waterproof pad onto the bed and change her there, where she had more room to roam.

I will say that they DO grow out of this fairly quickly. But as a warning, kids can fall. Frances fell off the bed twice. We were terrified. She was fine. ALL kids fall at some point and it's really traumatic when they do, but it usually turns out okay.


Susan W. - Jan 21, 2005 8:13:19 pm PST #6424 of 10002
Good Trouble and Righteous Fights

Usually the combination of a toy and me singing will distract her, but not this time. She just wanted to turn over and pull up, so that's what she did. I finally just left her in the playpen, dirty diaper and all, for several minutes, then tried again and was able to at least get her in a clean diaper. But she's been a handful and a half lately.


Strix - Jan 21, 2005 8:16:05 pm PST #6425 of 10002
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger

But she's been a handful and a half lately.

Yeah, happy, healthy baby!

Cold comfort, I'm sure, when you're trying to change her (or, like, SLEEP) but Susan, you are a GOOD parent. I've watched my friends do it, and damn, it's a goddamn lot of exhausting work. I respect that so much. I don't think I could do it.