I just officially decided to cut myself some slack on my self-imposed writing deadline, which is to finish the novel by the end of August.
First off, there's a month of slack built in--I've given myself September for a first editing pass, but all I
really
want is to have the rough draft finished and the first three chapters super-polished by October. And the reason for that is because I know I'll be at a writers conference where I can pitch it to editors and agents then, and you really need a completed ms to do that. But they only ask you to send them a partial.
And I just realized that even if I'm two chapters from the end by conference time, it's still perfectly OK for me to pitch the book, because I know myself well enough to know that once I'm that close I
will finish,
and before they've had time to read my partial and request the full.
And EVEN IF everything falls apart and I'm nowhere close to being done by October, the Whidbey Island Writers Conference happens every March. I can wait till March. And then there's the big Pacific Northwest conference every July, or if I can afford the travel by then, RWA National around the same time.
IOW, it'll be OK. This doesn't have to be the year I prove I'm capable of writing fast.
beth, your goal musings are entirely in line with what I learned in business school. If you're meeting all your goals, your goals are too low. If you can't meet any of your goals, they're too high. Ideally, they should be just beyond what you would do without trying hard.
Scary stuff, Cashmere. If it makes you feel any better, about ten years ago my dad was scheduled for an angioplasty that turned into a quadruple bypass. He made it through the surgery fine and is healthier today than he was then.
eesh, remind me not to get one of those. (I know, I know, all worth it. But it sure sounds like a bitch.)
Bwahahaha! I gotta go with brenda on this one. No offense meant at all to any mothers. But it sounds all very scary. and exhausting.
Good on you, Susan.
'Ma to your Ma, Cashmere.
Much ~ma to Cashmere's mother.
Parenthood: it's the toughest job you'll ever love.
lots of ~ma to Cash's mom.
-t - I've been wondering how you've been feeling lately? (holy crap, there's that question that I was just complaiing about last week!!!) Ok, I guess what I meant to say is, how is the pregnancy going so far?
-t - I've been wondering how you've been feeling lately? (holy crap, there's that question that I was just complaiing about last week!!!) Ok, I guess what I meant to say is, how is the pregnancy going so far?
Hee. I'm actually feeling really well. No nausea, yet, I'm just extra tired and even that is getting better the past couple of days. I've already taken one of my extra bonus pregnancy tests just to reassure myself that the first one wasn't lying.
I have my first doctor's appointment on Monday. I'm looking forward to it with a mixture of anticipation and dread.
