My areas were Seattle, Denver, Salt Lake, and Portland. I could live in all those places, I think.

Gud, I am sorry things are so hard with you and your dw. Much hope for some healing and health. Are you (just you) getting any counseling? You maybe need a safe and healthy place to vent (counselor, pastor, close friend), that wouldn't feel like a betrayal of your marriage.

I can't even imagine how exhausting your schedule is. My dh does a lot, but not that much, and I know how beat he is (and I am beat, too). There needs to be a little you time (and hopefully some you and dw time). Can you start taking a lunch break, during the day? You're gonna work yourself to death.

Mr. H and I managed to get the whole house clean this week by basically having a niceness war. We're never really home to work out chores, so a lot of times things dont' get done. This was the exact opposite. I'd picked up a couple of rooms, and he thought, "How nice! I'll do the dishes and clean the kitchen for her." When I got home and saw that the dishes were done, I thought I'd wash some clothes for him. He retaliated by folding the clothes, so I cleaned the bedroom to show him I could be just as nice. I got home yesterday to find him on his knees in the bathroom scrubbing.

Heather, by my calculations, you win.

Hee. Well, I was going to offer to pick some things up from the store and make dinner tonight (when I thought we'd have company and they'd be in the garage all night).

I think last time I did Find Your Spot, it came up wtih all sorts of random small towns I'd not really consider living in.

This time, it came up with: Portland, Baltimore, Little Rock (I think Arkansas MUST pay for shit--no WAY there's a big gay community there--Matt?), Sacramento (??must be the weather) and DC. Hee.

This time, it came up with: Portland, Baltimore, Little Rock (I think Arkansas MUST pay for shit--no WAY there's a big gay community there--Matt?), Sacramento (??must be the weather) and DC. Hee.

Those were all in my top six. Let's go live together.

I missed this find your spot thing. Where is it?

You need a copy of Our Bodies, Ourselves and a mirror.

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Betsy has a new tag.

Those were all in my top six. Let's go live togethe

Hee. Well, I'm IN DC, but Portland is definitely on my "someday when I move" list...

Ooh, are they talking about Portland, Maine? Because if it is, I think you should all live there. IJS.

Also, hi.

My friend has convinced me to go to the gym with her tonight. It's been a while, and the first time since I bought Wesley the iPod. Which I bought so I could take it to the gym. Six months ago.