Let him do his thing, and then you get him out. No messing with him for laughs.

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Nora Deirdre - Jan 13, 2005 7:04:24 am PST #3774 of 10002
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

(bracing Deb lecture)

Heh, I got the party started on bracing lectures for you, Deb. you say it better anyway.


Pix - Jan 13, 2005 7:05:00 am PST #3775 of 10002
The status is NOT quo.

I think you have made a sane and rational decision that will ultimately increase your happiness, P-C. YOu have a little panic now, because change is scary, and yo have a lot to do. I can relate. I just figured out what I think I want to do about this whole career thing and it is suddenly up in the air if I am even going to work for a living. But the end result is going to be much more what you want than listlessly working in labs on projects you aren't that interested in for the rest of your life.

This this this.

Remember, P-C, I'm just now finally crawling out of the career I thought would be lifelong to pursue a dream I never thought I had a chance at. It's scary as hell, but it's also liberating and exciting. One. Hour. At. A. Time. You will get through this.


Topic!Cindy - Jan 13, 2005 7:06:42 am PST #3776 of 10002
What is even happening?

P-C, if you start getting to the point financially, where food, shelter, and bills are a problem, there's nothing shameful about getting a plain old job, while you work on your career.


Deena - Jan 13, 2005 7:08:16 am PST #3777 of 10002
How are you me? You need to stop that. Only I can be me. ~Kara

Yeah, plain old jobs are pretty good things to have.

Nora, I like your plan so much better.


vw bug - Jan 13, 2005 7:09:36 am PST #3778 of 10002
Mostly lurking...

Deena, Nora is exactly right. If you were here, I don't think any of us would let you near anything that could be seen as work.


Polter-Cow - Jan 13, 2005 7:11:35 am PST #3779 of 10002
What else besides ramen can you scoop? YOU CAN SCOOP THIS WORLD FROM DARKNESS!

Hey P-C, have you seen this? [link]

No, I haven't! Thanks.


Deena - Jan 13, 2005 7:18:12 am PST #3780 of 10002
How are you me? You need to stop that. Only I can be me. ~Kara

Then that's just where I want to be, because right now I have to go clean up the dirt. I don't think I can leave it any longer and pretend it's drying. Yay.

Love you guys, thanks for the hugs and snuggles.


vw bug - Jan 13, 2005 7:50:48 am PST #3781 of 10002
Mostly lurking...

Ok...I'm off for a day of psychiatric fun (shrink, then group). Don't talk so much while I'm gone. The last couple of days you guys have gotten all chatty. Hee!


Nora Deirdre - Jan 13, 2005 7:59:35 am PST #3782 of 10002
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

Ok...I'm off for a day of psychiatric fun (shrink, then group). Don't talk so much while I'm gone. The last couple of days you guys have gotten all chatty. Hee!

How could we have fun without you, vw?


Maria - Jan 13, 2005 8:23:09 am PST #3783 of 10002
Not so nice is that I'm about to ruin a Friday morning for a bunch of people because of a series of unfortunate events and an upset foreign government. - shrift

{{{Gud}}} I hope it works out for the best.

t voice of doom

{{{Deena}}} I hereby decree that the babies should give you 24 hours worth of peace, in order that you may recharge your batteries and zap this headache. If Kara and Aidan don't listen, they will have to deal with me.

t /voice of doom

{{{P-C}}} I know it's frightening, but it's not unique to you. We've all gone through this. I'm not even sure I have a career yet, and I'm close to turning 31. One of the hardest things is coming to grips with the fact that not everything is going to come to you easily from now on. You're used to over-achieving, and it takes a little while to acclimate yourself to what happens in the real world outside of high school and undergrad. There are resources galore at UM to help you navigate the muddy waters; tap into them.

Edited to make perfectly clear that the voice of doom does not in any way, shape or form apply to Gud and his situation.