That's one spunky little girl you've raised. I'm gonna eat her.

The Mayor ,'End of Days'


Spike's Bitches 21 Gunn Salute  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Topic!Cindy - Jan 11, 2005 11:35:25 am PST #3215 of 10002
What is even happening?

Does anyone have any good relaxation exercises? My anxiety is really pissing me off. I almost dragged Julia and Chris out of the line at Dunkin Donuts twice, out of my overwhelming need to bolt. I'm having fight-or-flight with no OMGWTFPOLARBEARS in sight.

I didn't bolt, but it was a close call. I am trying to cut down on caffeine (I think I need to cut down even more) and remember to eat breakfast and lunch (I'm naturally inclined to be a meal skipper). I'd like to try lifestyle changes like that, before I go see my doctor for medication, because the anxiety is occasional (although more frequent, and stronger lately), and historically, I've been able to ride it out.


Topic!Cindy - Jan 11, 2005 11:37:25 am PST #3216 of 10002
What is even happening?

(also need exercises to ward off the temptation to write bad Mary!Me fic, with a slayer who got activated in her thirties, Post-Chosen, and thinks she's having anxiety attacks)


Lee - Jan 11, 2005 11:38:54 am PST #3217 of 10002
The feeling you get when your brain finally lets your heart get in its pants.

Hmm. Want CHOCOLATE.

Just needed saying again.

Gronk.

So did that.

I have no idea what my SAT scores were. I remember what my LSAT score was, but that's pretty much meaningless since they have changed the scoring system since I took them.


askye - Jan 11, 2005 11:39:32 am PST #3218 of 10002
Thrive to spite them

P-C, your writing is wonderful, I marked your post so I can go back and read it more closely.


juliana - Jan 11, 2005 11:40:06 am PST #3219 of 10002
I’d be lying if I didn’t say that I miss them all tonight…

Does anyone have any good relaxation exercises? My anxiety is really pissing me off.

Oy, Cindy. Hairpats for you, if you want 'em. I do Child's Pose as a relaxation exercise.


askye - Jan 11, 2005 11:43:54 am PST #3220 of 10002
Thrive to spite them

Cindy , I found that finding a place to sit down, closing my eyes, and taking slow deep breathes helped. I don't know how doable that is with two kids.


Topic!Cindy - Jan 11, 2005 11:44:48 am PST #3221 of 10002
What is even happening?

Thanks, juliana, for both the child's pose and the hairpats. I will try it. This is driving me crazy. I hate being like this. Usually I can write it off to hormones, but it's too early for the hormones to which I usually write it off. Could be ovulation, maybe. Frig.

I should probably look into a yoga class, too.


Ginger - Jan 11, 2005 11:46:07 am PST #3222 of 10002
"It didn't taste good. It tasted soooo horrible. It tasted like....a vodka martini." - Matilda

There's a fair amount of research behind the Relaxation Response [link] Cindy. It helps me when I practice it. The trick is doing the relaxation exercise at least once a day, so that when you breathe and repeat whatever word you use, you can relax wherever you are. You're teaching yourself to relax in response to a specific set of actions.


beathen - Jan 11, 2005 11:46:08 am PST #3223 of 10002
Sure I went over to the Dark Side, but just to pick up a few things.

Does anyone have any good relaxation exercises? My anxiety is really pissing me off.

One that takes a little more thought involves lying on the floor, tensing up your whole body and consciously and physically relaxing each part of your body, one at a time, working up from your feet.


Stephanie - Jan 11, 2005 11:46:11 am PST #3224 of 10002
Trust my rage

congratulations -t!!! I'm very excited for you and happy to welcome another pregnant woman to the growing ranks.

In mememe news, the Minian is now confirmed to be Miniana (that's my not so clever way of saying she's a girl). It was pretty clear once she finally let us look.

Have not told DH yet - he's supposed to call tonight. I'm going to see if I can convince him to call his dad. If not, I'll make the call tonight.