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JZ - Jan 06, 2005 3:02:47 pm PST #1677 of 10002
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.

Also, I should add that Hec's gray and Katerina Bee's gray and Anne W's ultracool salt-and-pepperness are all most excellent. My gray hair, however, is in scraggy patches at the temples that look, frankly, kind of sad.

My mom had the loveliest white wings at her temples for years before she started really graying up, and my dad went beautifully salt-and-pepper in his mid-50s. Mine, stupidly, resembles neither. It's just nast.


P.M. Marc - Jan 06, 2005 3:04:28 pm PST #1678 of 10002
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

JZ, I think they recommend no hair dye in the first trimester, and after that only things like highlights, that don't actually touch your scalp.

OBs vary on it. Mine had no real opinion, other than going with what I was comfortable with. Contrary to popular opinion, the fumes are considered the more harmful aspect, not the potential slight amount of chemicals through the scalp.


Ginger - Jan 06, 2005 3:05:55 pm PST #1679 of 10002
"It didn't taste good. It tasted soooo horrible. It tasted like....a vodka martini." - Matilda

I think completely gray hair or salt-and-pepper hair often looks great. My hair, as became depressingly obvious as it grew back in, is about half gray and half dark blonde, or, as the friend who colors my hair described it, "the color of a rat."


JZ - Jan 06, 2005 3:06:13 pm PST #1680 of 10002
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.

Oh, thank you Ple! I like Fire Red rather a lot.


ChiKat - Jan 06, 2005 3:23:26 pm PST #1681 of 10002
That man was going to shank me. Over an omelette. Two eggs and a slice of government cheese. Is that what my life is worth?

I think completely gray hair or salt-and-pepper hair often looks great.

I agree, Ginger. If my hair would go pretty!gray, I would let it. But blondes do not gray well. It's this weird, yellowed-with-age, gray thing. No, thanks.


Steph L. - Jan 06, 2005 3:24:45 pm PST #1682 of 10002
I look more rad than Lutheranism

But blondes do not gray well. It's this weird, yellowed-with-age, gray thing.

Aiiiiiiieeeeeee!!! Please don't tell me that! I had counted on going white.


SailAweigh - Jan 06, 2005 3:27:45 pm PST #1683 of 10002
Nana korobi, ya oki. (Fall down seven times, stand up eight.) ~Yuzuru Hanyu/Japanese proverb

Redheads can have the same problem. My grandmother was a dark auburn and her "white" hair wasn't really white when you looked closely. She always wore it up in a bun, so it was kinda hard to tell, close to the scalp seemed to be the whitest.


DavidS - Jan 06, 2005 3:39:08 pm PST #1684 of 10002
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

But blondes do not gray well. It's this weird, yellowed-with-age, gray thing.

Aiiiiiiieeeeeee!!! Please don't tell me that! I had counted on going white.

My hair used to be blonde. It looks okay gray.


JZ - Jan 06, 2005 3:41:00 pm PST #1685 of 10002
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.

I adore Hec's gray. He's silvering beautifully. Some blondes definitely do go a sort of dingey yellow, but it's not a universal rule.


erikaj - Jan 06, 2005 3:41:05 pm PST #1686 of 10002
Always Anti-fascist!

I like it, Hec. I know it's not quite a Hecliment, but I owe you some.It's not everyone who can look distinguished and hip, both.