2004. Well, except for the election, about which I won't speak, it was an okay year. I got a promotion, which came with too much work/stress and too little extra money, but still, promotion, and I remind myself almost every day to remember how glad I am to finally have a job I don't hate, that pays me enough money to live the way I want (minus a few luxuries). I lost a few pounds, got myself off antidepressants, got done with a toxic relationship, turned 41, which means I survived turning 40, found a rockin' great therapist, learned I shouldn't drink heavily ever again (especially at a business function), started paying off debts for real this time, and started writing a book that may, fingers crossed and knock on wood, get in front of an agent pretty soon.

2005, I expect great things from you, buddy. No excuses.

2004--was a year. The good things, I got to go to DC for the F2F and meet many Buffistas for the first time. And I got to go to San Francisco for the Nillytour, and meet more Buffistas--and Nilly!, and see ones I'd already met.

Otherwise, I made some good friendships, re-cemented some that had separated at the seams. We didn't go belly-up financially, though it was a near thing. Neither DH nor I died, or killed anybody, or each other, so that's a plus.

I guess if I can make it through 2005 with nothing worse, that'll be a victory of sorts. Is that sad? Hoping for "no worse" as the best possible? Ah well.

2004 has been... odd. Not bad, just odd.

I've been to California twice, had house guests for the first time in, well, ever, worked with a great team, managed to finally collect the entire run of the original Spider-Woman series, finish the bathroom, and, oh yeah, there's this baby on the way thing just when I'd come to terms with it never happening. I've spent more time in doctors offices in the last quarter of 2004 than in the whole of the decade before that.

When I was stuck in bed, I got great care packages from my Internet pals. Cybervixen sent me chocolates and reading/play materials. Dani sent me a lovely card and a book for the baby. Cindy kept emailing me to make sure I was alive. Cashmere sent me maternity clothing. Many of you kept me sane when I was going stir crazy and nuts, and thank you.

My main regrets are the things I didn't take full advantage of, and that I wasn't able to really have a blast over Halloween, though the ER was a somewhat surreal experience that will in time make me giggle.

Pssst, Plei, you scared the living crap out of us that night at Halloween.

One more nice thing about 2004: My husband dressed up in a pirate costume. At Pete and Jilli's. There are pictures. Jess took them.

I suck, in that I didn't even make it into the SLACKER Secret Santa exchange.

I am meara, and meara is me. Well, except for living in different places, and maybe a couple of other differences. We both thought Jessica Alba was hot in Honey, though. And we both thought the movie itself was pretty silly.

Also, I'm still a bit to poor to have really signed up for the Slacker exchange, which makes me sad because I'd love to gift one of you, but I'll get enjoyment by proxy, though.

Wow. This was a big year, full of many changes. If I'd done a tarot reading for myself last Dec. 31, I guess I would've turned over the Death card again and and again. Pretty much every condition that I started the year with is reversed now. I was extremely lucratively employed and now I'm unemployed. I had a strong start on my "bliss" job of graphic design, and now I can't do it. I was living comfortably in the States, and now I'm living a bit beyond my means in a country where I don't speak the language. I was a proud member of a DINK family, and now, despite years not wanting children, we decided we did and are halfway through the pregnancy.

But you know what? None of that is really bad. Because, at the start of the year, I was complacent, bored, and stagnating. I was looking towards a mid-life crisis at age 35, and was asking myself "Is this all there is?" And the things I had in my life that I valued beyond all else are still in my life - my husband, my cat, and my friends. So the good has stayed, and everything else has changed.

I don't know yet where the changes will end up (Will I ever be employed again? Or will I get back online and actually make my graphics business work? Will we be good parents? Will we not lose ourselves in the whole parenting thing and still be human? Will we have a cool kid?) but it will be fun to find out.

And I can't forget that at the start of the year, most Buffistas were all completely imaginary, but this year I met many Buffistas in person AIFG!

The one big thing that will mark 2004 as a negative for me is the election, and everything thereto appertaining: the results, obviously, but also the issues that became important and why; the election fraud; the lack of public interest in the election fraud; and the future bad times I foresee for the country I love. The year also held negatives of less world-spanning scope, but still painful; many friends lost pets and some lost spouses, and my heart hurts for them.

I hope that the Wheel of Fortune carries the Bush Administration down down down, and brings those I care about and those who've suffered too much some joy in 2005.

You know, this has been a really crazy year. I had a job that I more or less liked except I felt the dean was choking money away from our dept in such a way that I couldn't get work done. Colleagues at another institution asked me to apply for another job in January and I did. In March I interviewed and in April I was offered the job.

April and May were spent negotiating because it was important for my partner to get a good job and for 3 weeks in June we packed to get the house ready for sale. During that time his father died so that was a pretty emotional time. In addition, he was also finishing his dissertation so this really was a jam-packed stressful summer.

I closed on the old house in early August and closed on the new house the following day and I've still be running to catch up with myself since.

I'm happy to have moved and my partner is really thrilled about his new job and the new opportunities. I am pretty pleased here even though it has been a bit of an adjustment.

Elections: They sucked.

This month, I have had hundreds of dollars in unexpected home maintenance bullshit that I'm not thrilled about, but fuck it. This too shall pass.

I look forward to 2005. I hope it is a good one.

I began 2004 by injuring my back, and just as I recovered from that injured a rib. I was mostly back from all of that, and now have a cold that the doctor says could last another month.

But more importantly, I got to go to weddings, got a promotion, furnished the apartment, paid off the car, met fun new people, and did random crazy fun things.

And I'm a krav instructor. I hate goals, I hate saying "Oh, I want that, let me go get it." But I made some at the start of 2004, with that at the top. I've wanted to teach, officially, for years.

Hi. My name is ita. I have two jobs. I can't wait for 2005.

I am meara, and meara is me.

Also, I'm still a bit to poor to have really signed up for the Slacker exchange, which makes me sad because I'd love to gift one of you, but I'll get enjoyment by proxy, though.

I am Sean (and because he is meara, apparently I am meara, too). Really careless management of my budget (okay, complete lack of adherence to a budget) has finally made me get serious about my finances and huge debt, and so, as much as I'd like to participate, I have to be an adult.

No musings on 2004 yet. At least, not until I get some coffee in me.

So, all these people who are me, can they pay my bills? I mean, you can do it with my money, but...right now they're just decorating my kitchen island, and I can't seem to make myself go through them all...