You're not friends. You'll never be friends. You'll be in love till it kills you both.

Spike ,'Sleeper'


F2F 3: Who's Bringing the Guacamole?  

Plan what to do, what to wear (you can never go wrong with a corset), and get ready for the next BuffistaCon: San Francisco, May 19-21, 2006! Everything else, go here! Swag!


Polter-Cow - Apr 20, 2006 11:42:14 am PDT #8557 of 10001
What else besides ramen can you scoop? YOU CAN SCOOP THIS WORLD FROM DARKNESS!

Hmm, do I get to hug the Polter-Cow when I meet him?

Like Jesse, he will hug when cornered.

Liar. I hug on sight if given the opportunity.

You will be at Prom, yes?

I do believe so. Don't expect any fancy clothing, though.

I'm going to muss his hair and tell him he's cute.

Aw. Are you going to bring me a hot Goth chick to make out with, too?


deborah grabien - Apr 20, 2006 11:43:11 am PDT #8558 of 10001
It really doesn't matter. It's just an opinion. Don't worry about it. Not worth the hassle.

(eyeing compulsive huggers suspiciously)


juliana - Apr 20, 2006 11:48:51 am PDT #8559 of 10001
I’d be lying if I didn’t say that I miss them all tonight…

I am quietly clamoring for validation.

I'ma pounce-kiss you again.

Are you going to bring me a hot Goth chick to make out with, too?

Standing. Right. Exactly. Here.

I am a compulsive hugger - Deb can attest to that. So I apologize in advance for the hugging, but I am going to be so fucking GIDDY that I won't be able to help myself.


Atropa - Apr 20, 2006 11:52:39 am PDT #8560 of 10001
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.

Are you going to bring me a hot Goth chick to make out with, too?

Standing. Right. Exactly. Here.

See? Already taken care of.

(eyeing compulsive huggers suspiciously)

I always forget there are people who Don't Hug. I, much like juliana, apologize in advance for my "Yay! Person I like! Let's hug!" ways.


deborah grabien - Apr 20, 2006 11:52:52 am PDT #8561 of 10001
It really doesn't matter. It's just an opinion. Don't worry about it. Not worth the hassle.

Oh, I'm fine with people compulsively hugging each other - just, mostly, I don't do it myself. For one thing, something always hurts, physically. For another - well. I just don't. It's a character flaw.


Vortex - Apr 20, 2006 11:52:53 am PDT #8562 of 10001
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman

I'm also going to squeal excitedly and hug people. Consider this a warning.

me too. I apologize in advance for those who don't like hugging, I will endeavor to simply wave and dance with excitement. In P-C's case, I suspect the soft comfy busom may make up for the hug.

(eyeing compulsive huggers suspiciously)

looks at Deb, with gleam in eye. Decides not to risk losing delicious food. Shakes hand firmly.


esse - Apr 20, 2006 11:52:55 am PDT #8563 of 10001
S to the A -- using they/them pronouns!

because I had a mighty attack of shyness and feeling fat and gauche and otherwise disappointing, and OMGEveryoneWillHateMe.

See, I remember that time as, "Fay and I hung out in the room together for a bit during prom and she was so cute and sweet and helped me figure out what to wear." But YMemoryMV.

So--I may have asked this before. But who is sticking around into the week after the F2F?


JZ - Apr 20, 2006 11:54:37 am PDT #8564 of 10001
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.

Are you going to bring me a hot Goth chick to make out with, too?

I have got to sneak you an after-hours camping pass to the RenFaire this fall. Adorable Goth girls galore.

After juliana's had her fill of the P-C mackage, of course.

Also, Hec, check your email.


deborah grabien - Apr 20, 2006 11:54:54 am PDT #8565 of 10001
It really doesn't matter. It's just an opinion. Don't worry about it. Not worth the hassle.

I don't shake hands, either. If you feel must hug me, hug me - I'll probably respond, albeit I'm way more of an impulsive tilt of the head and lean on other person's shoulder for a moment type.

I just - take touching seriously, is all. So it doesn't tend to be random.


ChiKat - Apr 20, 2006 11:57:10 am PDT #8566 of 10001
That man was going to shank me. Over an omelette. Two eggs and a slice of government cheese. Is that what my life is worth?

re: compulsive hugging. I'm with deb on this one:

I just don't. It's a character flaw.

I'll hug back if someone hugs me, but it always seems really awkward to me for some reason.