Yeah, we're building a race of frog-people. It's a good time

Xander ,'Selfless'


F2F 3: Who's Bringing the Guacamole?  

Plan what to do, what to wear (you can never go wrong with a corset), and get ready for the next BuffistaCon: San Francisco, May 19-21, 2006! Everything else, go here! Swag!


Fay - Apr 17, 2006 8:17:10 pm PDT #8422 of 10001
"Fuck Western ideologically-motivated gender identification!" Sulu gasped, and came.

What are the current people going to do if they don't like your holiday plans? Fire you? I mean - you're leaving anyway, yes?

Well, by taking 7 days off work I will be having a negative impact upon the education of 21 kids who are presently getting additional support that they sorely need. I'm not entitled to any holiday during term-time, obviously, so I'm asking for unpaid time off. Basically, they can say 'No'.

And if they say no, then I'm looking at trying to negotiate for a shorter period of time off. And if they still say no, then I'm looking at whether I make it a 'well, I'm going, so you can just deduct my pay for the days I'm gone, or you can fire my ass' thing.

As things are at present, they should be paying my salary from now through to the end of July, when my contract with my new employer starts. They should also be paying for my flight back to the UK. If they decide they want to screw me, they are holding quite a few cards, because I'm not independently wealthy, and I pretty much am counting on that money.

But fingers crossed it should all be a moot point. It's just...I have no reason to trust in the philanthropy of my employers at this point, based on their treatment of me or of colleagues. (They have sacked several people during the course of the year for precious little provocation - sacked as in escorted-of-the-premises-the-same-day.)


Volans - Apr 17, 2006 10:05:50 pm PDT #8423 of 10001
move out and draw fire

I'm a huge fan of the redeye for easterly travel over any kind of significant distance -- I hate losing an entire day to travel because of time difference, and I'm willing to put up with a day-after of fogginess to avoid it.

Jess is me. Although, I really really don't like going into work right when I get off the plane, even with no more than the usual amount of fogginess.


deborah grabien - Apr 17, 2006 10:25:17 pm PDT #8424 of 10001
It really doesn't matter. It's just an opinion. Don't worry about it. Not worth the hassle.

As things are at present, they should be paying my salary from now through to the end of July, when my contract with my new employer starts. They should also be paying for my flight back to the UK. If they decide they want to screw me, they are holding quite a few cards, because I'm not independently wealthy, and I pretty much am counting on that money.

That's a good cogent answer. I don't know that an unscheduled week off ever had a life-changing negative impact any kid's education, but the asshattedness of the bosses and the cards they hold, that's the biggie.


brenda m - Apr 18, 2006 3:13:35 am PDT #8425 of 10001
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Jess is me. Although, I really really don't like going into work right when I get off the plane, even with no more than the usual amount of fogginess.

I used to take the red eye and then still take the day off of work, so that I could hit the sack at home for a couple of hours and then have the rest of the day to chill.


Fay - Apr 18, 2006 3:56:36 am PDT #8426 of 10001
"Fuck Western ideologically-motivated gender identification!" Sulu gasped, and came.

...so my immediate boss has okayed it. Which is very exciting. Now we have to see whether the lovely Men In Suits (who have thus far done little to endear themselves to me) are going to pass it.

crosses fingers, toes, legs, arms and eyes


Amy - Apr 18, 2006 4:01:26 am PDT #8427 of 10001
Because books.

::crosses all available digits for Fay::


brenda m - Apr 18, 2006 4:05:32 am PDT #8428 of 10001
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

I'm going to cramp up if they don't approve it soon.


deborah grabien - Apr 18, 2006 7:20:43 am PDT #8429 of 10001
It really doesn't matter. It's just an opinion. Don't worry about it. Not worth the hassle.

deborah grabien - Apr 18, 2006 7:20:48 am PDT #8430 of 10001
It really doesn't matter. It's just an opinion. Don't worry about it. Not worth the hassle.

Come ONNNNN, men in suits! GYST!

edit: hiccough in fingers.


Volans - Apr 18, 2006 8:32:43 am PDT #8431 of 10001
move out and draw fire

So, DC-istas, want to get together either pre- or post-F2F? I'll be staying near Dulles on my way in and out of the States, and was thinking Mal and I could come into the city and meet up with folks for Saturday dinner or Sunday brunch or something.

If this occurs, there will be non-Buffistas there in the form of my nephew, but he's cool. (a vague disclaimer is nobody's friend)

May 27-28 would be the better weekend for this for me.