I've been out of the abbey two days, I've beaten a lawman senseless, I've fallen in with criminals. I watched the captain shoot the man I swore to protect. And I'm not even sure if I think he was wrong.

Book ,'Serenity'


F2F 3: Who's Bringing the Guacamole?  

Plan what to do, what to wear (you can never go wrong with a corset), and get ready for the next BuffistaCon: San Francisco, May 19-21, 2006! Everything else, go here! Swag!


Nicole - Apr 10, 2006 6:14:35 am PDT #8025 of 10001
I'm getting the pig!

Ah. I'm not so much a tattoo pimp as I am just a PIMP. I got it now.

I'ma have to buy me a new hat and a velvet coat, then.


Lee - Apr 10, 2006 6:57:57 am PDT #8026 of 10001
The feeling you get when your brain finally lets your heart get in its pants.

We can probably help with the shopping, Nicole.

Don't forget the gold tooth though.


deborah grabien - Apr 10, 2006 7:48:26 am PDT #8027 of 10001
It really doesn't matter. It's just an opinion. Don't worry about it. Not worth the hassle.

Much as I adore the aquarium, I'm almost certainly passing; it's going to be a long two weeks leading up to it, and Monterey is a very long drive back and forth. Plus, all the walking around, add together, end result is almost certainly a massive MS exacerbation. So I'll probably pass.

If it looks physically happier by then, I can always come along and just pay full whack at the door.


deborah grabien - Apr 10, 2006 7:53:52 am PDT #8028 of 10001
It really doesn't matter. It's just an opinion. Don't worry about it. Not worth the hassle.

Aha!

I emailed Lilibeth about the open bar:

Hi Lilibeth!

We have a combined $1500 minimum to meet for Prom food and bar. The consensus I've been given is that we do an open bar.

How would that work? Right now, we're looking at about $800 or so in food, $700 toward drink, and possibly more. Would we prepay that, or would your bartender keep the tab on it, and we would make up any difference?

And she wrote back:

Let's do a prepay at least the minimum of $1,000, then have the bartender keep the tab after that. We are going to have a credit card on file anyway. What ya think?

Does this work? It would simply be a matter of refunding the difference, if I'm reading this right.


brenda m - Apr 10, 2006 8:01:46 am PDT #8029 of 10001
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

I'm okay with that, but it looks like a prepay, not an open bar.


Nora Deirdre - Apr 10, 2006 8:03:24 am PDT #8030 of 10001
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

yes, but it's prepay for the event, not for us, the attendees (still an open bar for attendees). Someone's gotta pay for the booze in the end, and it ain't gonna be the hotel.


deborah grabien - Apr 10, 2006 8:03:47 am PDT #8031 of 10001
It really doesn't matter. It's just an opinion. Don't worry about it. Not worth the hassle.

OK. Someone please explain the difference between a prepay and an open?

Because I'm missing something. We have a minimum we need to meet. We have X number of people who are planning on drinking. How can the bar be "open" unless it's prepaid? What's the difference between the two and why is one better?

There's something in the mechanics of this bit that I'm not getting.


Jessica - Apr 10, 2006 8:04:13 am PDT #8032 of 10001
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

I'm okay with that, but it looks like a prepay, not an open bar.

Yeah, I'm confused. And open bar should be a flat rate for a set time, not a prepay deal.


Nora Deirdre - Apr 10, 2006 8:04:55 am PDT #8033 of 10001
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

How can the bar be "open" unless it's prepaid?

It can't. I think you're OK with your understanding. The open bar status only affects the end user, the attendee, the party guest.


brenda m - Apr 10, 2006 8:05:34 am PDT #8034 of 10001
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Deb, an open bar would be, say $1000 for two hours (made up numbers). There's no accounting - what ever you drink or don't drink during that time period is covered.