She just... she just did the math.

Kaylee ,'Objects In Space'


F2F 3: Who's Bringing the Guacamole?  

Plan what to do, what to wear (you can never go wrong with a corset), and get ready for the next BuffistaCon: San Francisco, May 19-21, 2006! Everything else, go here! Swag!


beathen - Jan 27, 2005 2:00:50 pm PST #1202 of 10001
Sure I went over to the Dark Side, but just to pick up a few things.

Did you have a great time? My first F2F was a revelation. I had such a blast.

I had a great time! Now for a little story...

When my parents first got the internet about 10 years ago, my siblings and I were told not to go into chat rooms or talk to other people. The sole purpose of being connected was for research for school (and for the occasional game or two). I had heard the warnings from the news and my parents about serial rapists and killers meeting kids on the internet and, well, you know how the story goes. So, I stayed away.

Flash to a couple months ago - I still had not joined any kind of online groups. It's not that the warnings kept me away but lack of experience. I started internet chatting last year at another site, but it was mostly kids and young teenagers. Finally, I hopped onto b.org and I was amazed. I couldn't believe that everyone was talking about their families, sharing medical/employment/personal problems, and posting pictures of their families becuase, hello!, there's serial rapists/killers out there. Well, I finally let that thought/theory go. I also saw pictures of different Buffistas getting together in smaller groups and then a big F2F once a year. Well, I thought, this group is pretty neat.

So, last weekend I drove out to P-C's apartment to stay with him so I could visit everyone who was in town for the convention. At first it was a little odd to show up at someone's door and say, "Hi. I'm Elizabeth. I'm the one that's spending the night". Alone. With someone who I'd never met before. I was both nervous and a little excited. My nerves calmed down and had a great Friday night meeting some of P-C's friends and going out to see Phantom of the Opera.

Saturday was even more fun, and a little scary. Last weekend was when the winter storm hit Michigan. The drive from Ann Arbor to Troy was not too fun. The roads were covered in snow. I was white-knuckling the steering wheel the whole way there. Once we arrived at the hotel I was so relieved (and a little nervous about the ride back).

To shorten up this story I won't go into a blow-by-blow description of everything that we did but I'll sum up. As I said in an earlier post, meeting the Buffistas was like old friends reunited after a long absence. In chatting with people online and seeing pictures of people I felt like I had already gotten to know them a little bit. Everyone is more beautiful in person, and sometimes more fun. I mean, how priceless is it that I was witness to the multi-tasking Aimée?

My experience has, in a sense, broadened my horizons a bit. (Yes, I know that's cliché.) People on the internet are just as real, nice, fun and quirky as me (maybe even more). This is a group of people that I hope to be around and chat/talk/meet for years to come. When people that I see every day give me strange looks about meeting people from the internet I can just smile and say "you wouldn't understand".

I know that was a bit sentimental, but it's the truth. So, when you say "My first F2F was a revelation" I can totally relate.


JohnSweden - Jan 27, 2005 3:26:42 pm PST #1203 of 10001
I can't even.

I told beathen that our only really nasty quirk is the white slavery thing, but she seemed mostly unconcerned. P-C expressed gratitude at being immune.


Scrappy - Jan 27, 2005 3:56:08 pm PST #1204 of 10001
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.

Beathen, that was lovely.


beathen - Jan 27, 2005 4:01:21 pm PST #1205 of 10001
Sure I went over to the Dark Side, but just to pick up a few things.

Thanks.


shrift - Jan 27, 2005 4:52:14 pm PST #1206 of 10001
"You can't put a price on the joy of not giving a shit." -Zenkitty

Predictably, I have to work this weekend.


Maria - Jan 27, 2005 6:57:21 pm PST #1207 of 10001
Not so nice is that I'm about to ruin a Friday morning for a bunch of people because of a series of unfortunate events and an upset foreign government. - shrift

Yup, but this is on the way back - I don't ever need to take that last flight. Must ponder.

It's known as hidden-city ticketing. The airline will charge your card for the fare difference, and make your frequent flier account disappear. It technically violates the contract of carriage, and in extreme cases airlines will pursue legal action. They may also deny you boarding on future flights.

If it were me, I wouldn't do it. It's not worth the risk.


brenda m - Jan 27, 2005 7:03:55 pm PST #1208 of 10001
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Well, nuts. Thought I had a $209 flight going. Back to the drawing board. But thanks, Maria.


DebetEsse - Jan 27, 2005 7:10:11 pm PST #1209 of 10001
Woe to the fucking wicked.

Can you split the difference or something doing an open-jawed itinerary (ie- leave from one and return to the other)?


brenda m - Jan 27, 2005 7:12:13 pm PST #1210 of 10001
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Doubt it - usually you can't get the super discount fares that way. But I'll check. And I'm still coming out under $300 regardless, so it's not like it's a dealbreaker or anything.


Maria - Jan 27, 2005 7:33:32 pm PST #1211 of 10001
Not so nice is that I'm about to ruin a Friday morning for a bunch of people because of a series of unfortunate events and an upset foreign government. - shrift

You're welcome, brenda.

Want me to give it a shot? I've got finding cheap flights down to a science. Profile addy is good.