I've really got to learn to just do the damage and get out of town. It's the 'stay and gloat' that gets me every time.

Ethan Rayne ,'Potential'


The Minearverse 3: The Network Is a Harsh Mistress  

[NAFDA] "There will be an occasional happy, so that it might be crushed under the boot of the writer." From Zorro to Angel (including Wonderfalls and The Inside), this is where Buffistas come to anoint themselves in the bloodbath.


Jesse - Jan 26, 2005 6:59:34 am PST #4066 of 10001
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Uh, single parents aren't living alone -- they are living with their kid. No partner isn't the same as alone.


Kristen - Jan 26, 2005 7:19:25 am PST #4067 of 10001

What makes you think that preferring to live alone is a genetic trait, passed down from parent to child?

My mother and I could be participants in a study of the phenomenon. The genetically incapable of co-habitation. Though, since I am unlikely to spawn, it would be a very limited study.


Kristen - Jan 26, 2005 7:24:45 am PST #4068 of 10001

In other news, I just got an email that Caroline Dhavernas is going to be a guest on Nick Digilio's radio show (WGN Chicago) this Sunday night (11 PM Central Time).

IIRC from when Tim was on the show, you can listen online at their site.


tommyrot - Jan 26, 2005 7:27:41 am PST #4069 of 10001
Sir, it's not an offence to let your cat eat your bacon. Okay? And we don't arrest cats, I'm very sorry.

What's Caroline up to these days? Is this to promote the DVD release?


Kristen - Jan 26, 2005 7:32:21 am PST #4070 of 10001

I'm not sure what she's up to but I know they plan to talk about WF and give away some DVD sets.


Strega - Jan 26, 2005 7:47:54 am PST #4071 of 10001

Allyson -- Yup. I'm always around. Because I actually am solitary, heh. Any night but Friday is fine. Just give me a heads-up so I'm off the phone.

Jon B. --

What makes you think that preferring to live alone is a genetic trait, passed down from parent to child?

I was just trying to paraphrase so it's not my opinion, but that's not what I said. It doesn't matter if it's genetic or learned; it's still self-correcting. If it's genetic, the genes aren't going to become dominant. If it's learned behavior, then there's nobody around to whom you can teach it. And if (and this is my personal opinion) it's due to a combination of a thousand tiny things, it's not likely to be a problem.

I think RAH's train of thought was "Here's how families are changing, and may continue to change, and before you say 'maybe we'll all live alone' here's why I don't think that's likely, and anyway...." It's a one-sentence parenthetical note.


arby - Jan 26, 2005 8:36:46 am PST #4072 of 10001
Guy #1: Man, there are so many hipsters around. I hate hipsters! Guy #2: You're at the wrong place. That's like going to Vegas only to say "I hate titties!" --The Warsaw, Williamsburg (OINY)

Uh, single parents aren't living alone -- they are living with their kid. No partner isn't the same as alone.

Oh yeah. Duh.

I got nothin'.


Betsy HP - Jan 26, 2005 10:17:34 am PST #4073 of 10001
If I only had a brain...

Okay. Line marriage as proposed by Heinlein works like this.

I marry Tim. Tim marries ita. ita marries Mark Dacascos. Mark marries Kate Winslet. And so on. Each new person is joining the Hanes Perry marriage. (It's named after me because I thought of it. So there.) New partners have to be approved by the existing members of the marriage. The Hanes Perry marriage owns property in common and raises children of the marriage together. The marriage's children do NOT marry back into the lineage.

P.S. Everybody is heterosexual because this is a middle-period Heinlein novel.


Jesse - Jan 26, 2005 10:22:49 am PST #4074 of 10001
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

So, you're not married to Mark or Kate, Betsy? They're just in your line?

And everyone but you gets to be married to two people at a time?


brenda m - Jan 26, 2005 10:24:05 am PST #4075 of 10001
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Ok, but is there back and forth along the line? Is ita restricted to Tim and Mark, or can she mess around with you and Kate Winslet if the spirit moves her?

Or, if the het thing messes things up, say Kate then marries Sean. Free for all, or do you and ita just get to gnash your teeth jealously?