Also, you can tell it's not gonna have a happy ending when the main guy's all bumpy.

Tara ,'First Date'


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[NAFDA] "There will be an occasional happy, so that it might be crushed under the boot of the writer." From Zorro to Angel (including Wonderfalls and The Inside), this is where Buffistas come to anoint themselves in the bloodbath.


DCJensen - Aug 20, 2004 7:14:13 am PDT #1754 of 10001
All is well that ends in pizza.

DCJensen - Aug 20, 2004 7:15:08 am PDT #1755 of 10001
All is well that ends in pizza.

Wrong thread, btw, not deleted response.


libkitty - Aug 20, 2004 10:21:04 am PDT #1756 of 10001
Embrace the idea that we are the leaders we've been looking for. Grace Lee Boggs

Then again, there is a lot of racism directed towards the villages up there.

There were a few incidents with paintballs a few years ago. The incidents were bad, but they have had the positive impact of making a lot of people aware of the issues. There is now a dialog that at least I (as a white urban Alaskan who is somewhat involved in racism/social justice issues) find positive. I think it's getting better.

Also, the current budget issues are, I think, making urban Alaskans more aware of the issues that face bush Alaskans. Of course, I may be biased because so many of my friends and colleagues are in or from the bush. It certainly is true that many in urban areas just complain because they don't think that they get enough of the money. I think you'll find that everywhere when money is involved though!


juliana - Aug 20, 2004 10:29:53 am PDT #1757 of 10001
I’d be lying if I didn’t say that I miss them all tonight…

Sorry, libkitty. I should have said 'was'. I truly didn't recognize how prevalent the prejudice was until I went to live Outside and only came home to visit. Now that I don't even go socialize when I'm up there, I'm completely out of touch.

I think it's getting better.

This is good to hear.


libkitty - Aug 20, 2004 2:08:13 pm PDT #1758 of 10001
Embrace the idea that we are the leaders we've been looking for. Grace Lee Boggs

No big. It finally dawned on me that I wasn't in Natter, and probably shouldn't have gone on like that. Sorry!

Thus, I hearby stop.

for now.


Liese S. - Aug 20, 2004 6:46:54 pm PDT #1759 of 10001
"Faded like the lilac, he thought."

Huh. Fascinating. Thanks, Rick for the information. I had no idea, and that really is interesting and compelling to me.

Our family says haole, of course, and generally means it factually or at least playfully. They say it about us, too, though, when we do something stupid like forget to take our slippers off at the door. I think there's a real distinction between mainlanders and Hawaii residents that goes beyond race. My SO tends to interpret it as derogatory, though, but he's never really been there and spent time there, so it's hard for him to gauge.

I didn't know the etymology, though, Lori, so that's interesting, too. And yeah, my sister and pretty much my whole generation of cousins has married outside of the race in one way or another (Filipino being the most controversial) so all the next generation are hapa. But this was the first generation to do so, in my family, and it was a pretty big to-do when it started. I'm on the youngest end of my family, so by the time it got to me, everyone was like, eh, okay, let's have a party.


Kat - Aug 20, 2004 9:33:48 pm PDT #1760 of 10001
"I keep to a strict diet of ill-advised enthusiasm and heartfelt regret." Leigh Bardugo

Our family says haole, of course, and generally means it factually or at least playfully. They say it about us, too, though, when we do something stupid like forget to take our slippers off at the door.

Yeah, this was the usage that I am most familiar with (outside fo the regular identification of what you are). When I'm doing something stupid or thoughtless or not the way it's done in Hawaii (haole rice, for example, I'm assuming that's converted rice or instant rice) I get told that's my haole side.

I think there's a real distinction between mainlanders and Hawaii residents that goes beyond race.

So very true. Sure, haole is used factually, but there's also a derogatory (even if playful) usage that is used to show that distinction.


Vortex - Aug 23, 2004 5:16:44 am PDT #1761 of 10001
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman

(haole rice, for example, I'm assuming that's converted rice or instant rice

Katie's reference to haole rice came when we were describing the rice in the University cafeteria as sticky and gloppy mess with lots of starch, instead of individual grains. She said, that's the way I like it, not haole rice.


lisah - Aug 23, 2004 6:23:55 am PDT #1762 of 10001
Punishingly Intricate

Filipino being the most controversial

Why so?

I'm curious because one of my best friends, who is Filipina, moved to Hawaii this year. I've been reading about it a bit and am going to visit in the fall. (Am very excited, of course!)


Liese S. - Aug 23, 2004 8:10:26 am PDT #1763 of 10001
"Faded like the lilac, he thought."

I'm guessing among my Japanese American relatives, the predominant (of many) prejudice is against that particular ethnic heritage. Dunno why. Something about labor, maybe?