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Bureaucracy 3: Oh, so now you want to be part of the SOLUTION?  

A thread to discuss naming threads, board policy, new thread suggestions, and anything else that has to do with board administration and maintenance. Guaranteed to include lively debate and polls. Natter discouraged, but not deleted.

Current Stompy Feet: ita, Jon B, DXMachina, P.M. Marcontell, Liese S., amych


DavidS - Jan 02, 2007 10:48:09 am PST #7706 of 10001
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

As bon, noted it's useful to innoculate people with a little bit of doubt and make people aware of this dynamic (which is generally very consistent).

And as Dana noted (and Cindy just validated), it's a common experience in ongoing online communities.


amych - Jan 02, 2007 10:49:16 am PST #7707 of 10001
Now let us crush something soft and watch it fountain blood. That is a girlish thing to want to do, yes?

The girl supposedly died, because (I shit you not) she sang

Fascinating. Did she have violet eyes, by any chance?


Monique - Jan 02, 2007 10:49:20 am PST #7708 of 10001

I think the little boy's name was Djoser
Yes! Although I think his real name was "Fictional piece of drama that I can 'kill' off to gain love."

I remember back when someone first asked me if Penlind pinged my Bullshit Meter. I was so innocent and trusting that my first thought was, "Huh? What?" Then my brain kicked in and 30 seconds later there was no doubt in my mind that everything was an elaborate piece of fiction.

Ah. To be young again.


beekaytee - Jan 02, 2007 10:51:31 am PST #7709 of 10001
Compassionately intolerant

The hashing seems infinitely healthy to me.

A very long time ago, at a do-gooding non-profit, an employee began telling folks that she was pregnant, not in a relationship and in very bad financial straits. Everyone jumped to her aide...some of them in similar shape. Call it spidey-sense, but I had a bad feeling about the whole thing. One of my best friends in the org was appalled when I quietly expressed my concern. We had an enormous falling out that was never really healed. It came to pass that the pregnant person, 'lost the baby' and as a result got even more money, sympathy and support thrown at her. I was the only one who did not give money (that I didn't have at the moment, mind you) and was roundly spurned. Another employee went to visit the woman's mother and discovered that it was all a lie. The nearly 1k worth of merchandise given (and this was nearly 20 years ago), had been sold for shoes and manicures.

The point is, THAT community did not have an open discussion like this and long-term distrust and pain resulted.


Dana - Jan 02, 2007 10:52:05 am PST #7710 of 10001
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

The girl supposedly died, because (I shit you not) she sang

Gotta sing!


Allyson - Jan 02, 2007 10:53:41 am PST #7711 of 10001
Wait, is this real-world child support, where the money goes to buy food for the kids, or MRA fantasyland child support where the women just buy Ferraris and cocaine? -Jessica

Ah, Penlind. Good times.

So Gus was a sockpuppet? Did I skip too much?


Cashmere - Jan 02, 2007 10:54:22 am PST #7712 of 10001
Now tagless for your comfort.

The hashing seems infinitely healthy to me.

I'm a hasher.

And OUCH.

Ah. To be young again.

Oh, the innocence. And I can register everywhere with my home email address again!


Cashmere - Jan 02, 2007 10:55:52 am PST #7713 of 10001
Now tagless for your comfort.

Still unknown. Strongly suspected in some, irrelevant to others.


tommyrot - Jan 02, 2007 10:55:59 am PST #7714 of 10001
Sir, it's not an offence to let your cat eat your bacon. Okay? And we don't arrest cats, I'm very sorry.

So Gus was a sockpuppet? Did I skip too much?

Well, he doesn't exactly fit the definition, does he? A sockpuppet is a second login to a site that pretends to be some other person.


Stephanie - Jan 02, 2007 10:57:01 am PST #7715 of 10001
Trust my rage

It'sbeen so long thatI can't remember how this works. Would "kimi" need access to the e-mail she listed in her buffista registration to be able to activate her account with us?